Disconnected in marriage, arguments & repair w/Jocelyn of @meet_thefreemans

Mama Knows

Cloud10

Parenting, Kids & Family

5 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 July 2024

⏱️ 43 minutes

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0:00.0	I'm so excited about today's episode. I'm talking to Jocelyn. She is one of two,
0:12.0	Aaron is the other one from Meet the Freemans.
0:15.3	Meet the Freemans.
0:16.1	comment on Instagram there are also Meet the Freemans.
0:18.9	They're authors of the argument Hangover and also the creators of the couples workshop which has
0:25.1	sold out so many times I think like 50 plus times they are helping couples every
0:31.4	single day in their relationship and today Jocelyn and I are going to
0:35.2	talk about arguments repair and just healthy relationship vibes so let's dive in. Jocelyn, I am so excited to talk to you today.
0:47.2	I was just looking at your Instagram and I'm often looking at your Instagram,
0:51.6	but just before we jumped down, I like oh my gosh this is my life I love that you and Aaron your husband
0:59.5	literally live what we are all living to and then you share about it. But before we dive into
1:06.8	marriage and conflict and feeling like you're stuck in this cycle of constant arguing, I would love to hear about you and how you and
1:16.1	Aaron got started and what brought you to this era of coaching couples and being stronger in their marriage. I love that you said
1:25.6	era because I recently saw a friend who's in a totally different era than I am
1:31.0	right now like her kids are like about to go to college.
1:34.4	So she's about to be an empty nester
1:36.3	and she's now more like just like traveling and kind of returning back to
1:40.3	like just herself.
1:41.4	And I said we are in such different eras right now and it was fun to connect over it because I'm definitely in my mama era
1:48.0	I'm a mom of a toddler live in Arizona with my husband. We've been together 11 years and we've grown and changed so
1:55.9	much together. You know we are different every year and definitely as our years have
2:02.2	evolved we actually waited quite a bit to have our daughter.
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