Ladies, I sent you dilemmas to the...

To the group?

To your actual...

To your other page.

I said three of them.

Did it go out of three?

Yeah.

I said, I got three in there.

I got the stuff to you.

I don't know.

I mean, so I think you run as well, yeah.

I don't know what it's in there. I don't know. I don't know. It's a go first. I see the hold on. Oh, so it's in the phone even come on. I don't know. Sorry, actually it's awesome. I don't know. So you should be your name from the fish.

I don't mind going to go first. You don't want to go first? I don't want to go first. So ladies, let Tay's go first. Oh, yeah, you've got three in here. Oh, you can see him, yeah? Yeah, I can see him. You know, is your phone day? Three, four, five. Yeah, cool. But whoever's starting and then I'll jump in later. I've been married for 12 years and I've been the breadwinner the whole time.

I bought the house. Yeah, but whoever's starting and then I'll jump in later. I've been married for 12 years and I've been the breadwinner the whole time.

I bought the house, paid for our holidays, even bailed my husband out when his business went under.

Now that I've had another promotion and my salaries doubled, he's been acting resentful.

He told me flat out that my success emasculates him and even suggested that I downscale my career so that he can step up. Imagine being told to dim your own light so that your man can feel big again. I love him, but I feel punished for being ambitious. Do I keep thriving and let the marriage crumble or sacrifice part of myself just to protect his eagle. He's got a girl. Get a job in JD or something? Who? J.D. No, that's the end. It's the end. You've outgrown him. Absolutely. If he can't be happy for you and grow with you, bun that. What sad is? Go therapy. See if you can work it out that way.

But if not, if he's going to be resentful and try to expect you to not be you, fuck that shit. But what's sad is that the signs were definitely different before? Yes. She just ignored it and hoped it would. This couldn't just come out of nowhere. You can't just remember. But you know friends, like, you know there's certain things that happen to friends or whatever?

There's always like something that happened before that you were like, I didn't see that. Or, like, no, I didn't see it. I ignored certain behaviors. But now it's enabled something else. Because really, there's no way that a man who's resentful of his wife or woman wouldn't have shown it in other places. It can't just be just overnight because you've got double pay. Yeah, most definitely. He was never comfortable with you paying for stuff. He was never uncomfortable. 12 years, though. Did you say 12 happy years, though? She didn't say 12 happy years, though. So what, 12? Ignoring or he didn't show that side of him

until the time when, like maybe it was all well and good

when they were like a hierarchical thing

and then she started excelling and then his jealousy

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