Hey, the bird show. I don't know how there can be a gray area here. Either you cheat or you don't cheat. What is middle ground here?

Okay, so I told this story a few weeks ago about my guy putting himself in a pretty tight situation because he's married.

And at the end, he did the right thing, but did what he do before he did the right thing but did what he do before he did

the right thing was that enough of an offense to where his wife would see it as an issue that's

the question and so he's in the military so he is currently in South Korea and he's there alone

and I think he's going to be there for quite

some time. I'm not sure how long, but he's been there for a few months. He's getting acclimated. He's

getting adjusted and he really loves being there. So he went out a couple of weeks ago. It was his

first time feeling like, you know what, I have been doing nothing but working and working out and I need a night out.

So he goes out and he ends up meeting a young lady.

She's single.

She's out there living her best life.

He is married.

But somehow, some way, they end up in the same section.

They start talking and they kind of hit it off.

At some point, the conversation turns into, would you like to dance with me? She asked him. Now, the reason I'm telling this story a little slower this time is because he heard me tell it the first time. He wanted to make sure I got some of these details correct. He has some clarifications to make. A little bit of clarifying to do here.

Okay.

So she asked for the dance and he said okay.

Now, his intentions initially, which in my mind, intention versus impact, right?

But intentions are important. important so whereas literally to just

have a nice innocent dance can't harm anything what's the big deal can we pause there for just

one second because wondering if it's even appropriate to take the dance well for me um

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