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Dear Young Married Couple

DESIRE: Reflections from a Single Christian Woman (w/ Kat Harris, Author and Speaker)

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8871 Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

“The biggest misstep that we've taken is that we’ve flattened this robust, multi-dimensional, layered, nuanced experience of our sexuality into a one-dimensional act of sex. We’ve flattened this experience into a set do's and don'ts.⁠ ♥️⁠ It’s much easier to preach ‘Don’t even get close. Just don’t do anything at all.’ It’s much easier to offer a black and white sound bite than to equip people to actually seek God and look at the scriptures.” -- @therefinedwoman⁠ ♥️⁠ SINGLE people - take the time to tune into this episode and be enlightened with HOW to express your sexuality as a single person. Expressing sexuality is NOT all about having sex.⁠   You can pre-order Kat's book Sexless in the City here. Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com   Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Culture tells us that we are our desires. Genesis 1, 26 through 31 doesn't say I'm the absence of

0:35.8

my desire. Often Christian culture, religious circles can say, just shut it down.

0:40.0

Don't talk about it.

0:40.9

Don't think about it.

0:41.8

Don't even think about thinking about it until you're married.

0:43.9

And then be as sexual as you want within that marriage bed.

0:47.1

The biggest misstep that the church has taken.

0:49.1

And it is that we fought in this robust, multi-dimensional, layered, nuanced experience into a one-dimensional

0:58.0

act of sex. If sexuality were a book, sex and physical intimacy would be one chapter.

1:06.0

Dear young married couple, you're in a busy season of your life. You're probably working and involved in

1:12.6

ministry. On top of that, you might even be parents or students. You're maxed, but you really want to

1:20.0

stay connected in your marriage. And that's why we're bringing this podcast to you. I'm Adam King.

1:25.3

And I'm Carissa King, and we work with busy couples just like you

1:28.8

in our counseling office here in Sacramento, California. We also work with couples all over the world

1:33.6

through online counseling and our couples are really just looking for ways to communicate with each other

1:38.2

more effectively. Some of them are looking to heal from a breach and trust or find direction

1:43.5

in fulfilling the purpose that God

1:45.1

has for them. So come and join us as we have a conversation. We'll talk with therapists, authors,

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