Deep Dive with Julie and John Gottman on Fighting Right

Kelly Corrigan Wonders

Kelly Corrigan Show

Society & Culture

4.8 • 3.2K Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2024

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Doctors Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman are probably the world’s reigning experts on relationships. They are well into their 5th decade of research that reveals why we treat each other as we do and how a few small but essential adjustments to our everyday patterns could change our relationships for the better. Everything we talked about is applicable across the board - from couples to parents and children and all the people we work with. We predict this will be our most shared episode of 2024. Enjoy.

Check out the Gottman's’ new book: Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection

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0:00.0	Welcome to Kelly Corrigan Wonders. I'm Kelly Corrigan and today I'm wondering about fighting right.
0:08.1	How when we are in a tough conversation with somebody we really love and want to be in
0:13.9	relationship with for a long long time. Are we to make ourselves heard while also
0:20.1	somehow hearing them? I'm interested on one level as a married woman who wants to
0:26.0	stay married. I'm interested on a second level as a US citizen who is
0:30.4	noticing that more and more we seem to have zero ability to talk across lines of difference.
0:37.0	My thought partners are Dr. Julie Schwartz-Gotman and her husband, Dr. John Gottman. These two have revolutionized the study of
0:46.2	marriage. They've been added for five decades researching all facets of
0:51.0	relationships. Join us.
0:53.0	We'll be right back with Kelly Corrigan Wonders. Hey, I have a quick favorite to ask. We are conducting a survey to get to know you, our audience, better.
1:09.0	It won't take long and it's easy to find. Visit survey.
1:13.2	PRX.org slash Kelly.
1:16.8	That's survey dot PRX.org.
1:20.2	Thank you. Welcome back to Kelly Corrigan Wonders. I'm Kelly Corrigan and we are doing a five-part series on rupture and
1:42.0	repair trying to teach ourselves and everyone else. a five-part series on rupture and repair,
1:43.0	trying to teach ourselves and everyone else
1:45.2	who listens to our show,
1:46.9	how to do conflict better,
1:49.2	in their personal lives and their lives as citizens. My guest today are Drs Julie and John Gottman.
1:55.0	I have been quoting the Gottmans for 20 some years
1:58.0	and have used some of their teachings in my own marriage.
2:01.0	The Gottman Institute, which they founded together, developed
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