Deep Casual Intimacy: Scott’s Update
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
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🗓️ 25 June 2024
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia.
00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.
08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.
16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal.
26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*
32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.
39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.
42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.
50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs.
📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based
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| 0:00.0 | Hello lovely humans. I'm Wiley and you are listening to a special update |
| 0:09.4 | episode of Sex Stories, a podcast where we learn about human connection by sharing our experiences |
| 0:15.6 | and we noodled together about how we can spread ripples of love across this world. |
| 0:20.5 | Our guest today is a 36 year old Sis Bi-By dude who is in a polyamorous straight-passing relationship and lives in the Pacific Northwest and works in emergency medicine overseas. |
| 0:30.0 | A gentleman dom who attracts submissive partners with charming phrases like, |
| 0:34.0 | will beat you for coffee, originally a guest from 161 in March 2022. |
| 0:39.0 | Welcome back, Scott! |
| 0:41.0 | Hello, thank you. |
| 0:42.0 | Thanks for being here with us today. |
| 0:44.0 | What has been going on since we talked last? |
| 0:47.0 | Have you continued your Shabari journey or tell us, whatever you want to tell us? |
| 0:50.0 | Yeah, the Shabari ended up being put on hold for a little bit just |
| 0:56.0 | because what I realized is that to actually do it correctly requires a significant amount of time |
| 1:02.3 | and effort and... Even as I got on... requires a significant amount of time and efforts. |
| 1:03.0 | Dude, even as a bottom, like I recently got tied by one of my friends partners. |
| 1:08.8 | They are super duper into rope and Shabari and all of it and I love it and I also am yeah it's an |
| 1:15.3 | investment and it's so cool and beautiful but damn it's an investment. |
| 1:18.9 | It is very much an investment especially of time. And so I'm hoping that there will be a change |
| 1:26.6 | in my lifestyle dynamics in about six months. |
| 1:29.8 | And so I'm hoping to actually get a chance |
| 1:31.4 | to really kind of involve myself then. |
| 1:36.6 | But yeah, the Shabari was, I was like, oh, crap. |
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