Decision Drivers in Marriage

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8 • 4.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2020

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Decisions, decisions! The average couple makes hundreds of small decisions and many significant ones on a daily basis. The question is, where do our choices come from? As we discussed in this episode, every decision is rooted in some core value, and our core values have to do with our views of wisdom and folly as well as our ability to act on our views. This conversation got a bit heady, but we still had fun with it. We hope it blesses you in some way. Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including free books, ebooks, silicone rings, and exclusive ministry updates. Patron levels start at just $2/month.

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0:00.0	So why do we make certain decisions as a couple?
0:03.6	Are we kind of spending our wheels or are we learning
0:07.8	how to actually live intentionally in the values of God?
0:10.8	Are we... I asked these questions because I feel like this is the water that I swim in in my own head is just...
0:18.2	Why am I making... I need to make all these decisions.
0:20.5	Why am I making these decisions?
0:22.1	Oh, now they're being called into question.
0:23.8	Do I remember why we made...
0:25.2	Like, what were the big reasons and the drivers?
0:27.2	The values that are driving these decisions on a day to day basis.
0:31.8	That's true.
0:32.6	And we make far more decisions than we realize on a daily basis.
0:36.0	Some are very mundane.
0:37.0	Even the decision to open a door, to grab a doorknob and a twist it and...
0:40.5	Can you think about it?
0:41.5	Well, we would... we'd be paralyzed if we were cognizant of all those decisions.
0:46.3	But yeah, you're absolutely right.
0:47.6	And that our values are always going to be the behaviors that fuel the decisions we make.
0:53.4	And so we're going to talk about some of the values of a Christian marriage.
0:58.2	Just to put a name to them.
0:59.8	Because so often we can think in general terms or more theoretical...
1:05.1	There's a very personal stuff too.
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