It just became easier not to have sex, you know, just to keep the peace.

This is death, sex, and money.

Don't let them bother you. It's okay not to have sex.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

I had not had sex with my husband for years.

And need to talk about more.

I'm tired of not having sex.

I'm in a sale.

A few months ago, we got an email from a listener.

I'll call Marie.

I'm 34 years old, and I haven't dated anyone seriously.

I've never even been kissed before by anybody.

Marie has also never had sex.

I do still have that fear that somebody, I'm going to tell somebody that I've never had sex before

and they're going to walk away.

You know, instead of a scarlet letter A, it would be a scarlet letter B.

Not having sex ever before or just right now can feel isolating, maybe a little embarrassing.

But we suspected that Marie's not alone. So a few weeks back, I asked you

this question. Why are you not having sex right now? I'm not having sex because men don't find me

attractive. Because my body's broken and it can't seem to be fixed. I'm really terrified of men. I've been celibate for

about 14 years. And the weird thing is that I'm okay with it. I would rather read a book than be

intimate with him. We heard from people who wish they were having sex. I'm not having sex because

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