Do you think you were a father?

Yeah.

Is it past tense?

Yeah, probably.

I wouldn't consider myself a father now.

This is death, sex, and money.

Please, they're dead.

It's a little late to be neurotic.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

Are you guys like boyfriend, girlfriend? And need to talk about war. I've always admired men like

your father. Wealthy, but not stuffy. I'm in a sale. Six years ago, when Tony was in his

mid-20s, he was working as a bartender and a photographer in a Western college town.

One night after work, and after a few drinks, he hooked up with a woman he dated back in high school.

It was just pretty random. The whole thing just kind of happened really fast and then was over.

Then, a few weeks later, she told him she was pregnant.

There was a really, really, really long silence after she told me,

because I was pretty careful with what I wanted to say,

or was planning to say I needed to, like, think about it for sure.

And I told her that it was her choice

everything and if she chose to keep it then I would be a good dad and I would take care of her and

the baby and I did give her a disclaimer that night and said that I didn't want to

start a relationship with her because of a child. Did you say, are you sure it's mine?

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