I really didn't want to be doing it alone.

I was open to what other, who else might be around to support it, but I felt like really parenting where it's just you and the kid.

That's very tough.

This is Death, Sex, and Money.

Now, he's got dead cops, dead robbers, dead civilians.

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

Are you thinking about sex?

And need to talk about more.

Whenever you're quiet, you usually think about sex.

I'm Anna's Sale.

In one way, Lucy Sexton's story is not so unusual.

Life whizzes past.

A woman is 30, then in her mid-30s, and then in her late 30s.

And then if kids are going to happen, it's really time.

There are limits, though, to what you can control.

I was married when I was, you know, I don't know, 27.

And then in my mid-30s, I was like, okay, so let's have a kid.

And then he didn't really want to.

And then in my late 30s, that marriage broke up.

And I was really like, you know, I really wanted a family. I really wanted a kid, and now I'm in my late 30s and without a partner and a way to have a child.

But what Lucy did have was a willingness to break the rules. She's a performance artist and a dancer.

What do you want? In the 1980s, she was a fixture on the downtown New York scene.

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