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Welcome to Dear Prudence.

I'm your guest Prudence, Kristen Mineser. I host a couple of other podcasts, including By the Book and How to Be Fine. Be sure to check those out if you love self-help books,

hate self-help books, or want advice on how to be okay-ish rather than perfect. Today, we'll be

answering questions about confronting your dad's

hoarding partner, moving forward after a fight with your mom, and dealing with a controlling

fiancé. Here to help me out is sports journalist and author Frankie De La Crayta. Welcome to the show, Frankie.

Thank you so much for having me.

Now, before we get started, we like to ask all of our guests for a bit of advice that you would give to the world unprompted.

Okay, this is one I'm working on, but I think it's really important, which is,

it's okay to let people be wrong about you. Um, yeah. Oh, explain. Explain more about this.

I'm someone, I'm a journalist, right? So I always have the receipts and the facts and I struggle.

I'm okay if you're upset with me over something I

legitimately did or said or whatever, but I really struggle when I feel like people are perceiving me

incorrectly. And I spend a lot of time and energy trying to either defend myself or explain

myself. And that's fine if you're engaging with someone who's engaging in good faith,

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