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welcome to dear prudence i'm your prudence janey Desmond Harris. Today we'll be answering letters from a reader whose fiancé won't stop publishing smutty fiction about real-life historical figures, and another who needs to know what to do after her husband stole a $500 bottle of wine from a dinner party. Outrageous.

Plus, there's someone who can't get over how much she looks like her boyfriend's dead wife,

and a woman who did not experience any childhood trauma, but for some reason her mom will not believe

that.

Here to help me out is the host of NPR's It's Been a Minute, Brittany Luce.

Every week she tackles cultural issues

ranging from whether there really is a male loneliness pandemic to why celebrities are, quote,

in their flop era. Brittany has also hosted the podcast for colored nerds, the nod, and sampler.

Aside from Slate's Nadira Goff, I think she's our first repeated guest. I couldn't wait

to have you on again. I just had to wait until it had been long enough. So welcome to

thank you. I can't believe that. I am so touched. I'm so I mean, I'm thrilled. Thank you so

well thank you for being here. You know what I'm going to ask you. I think I asked you last time too. So this has to be a'm thrilled. Thank you so much. Well, thank you for being here. You know what I'm going to ask you.

I think I asked you last time, too. So this has to be a new one. What is a piece of unsolicited

advice that you would like to share with our listeners? So this is not actually controversial,

this piece of unsolicited advice, but it is some advice I had to give myself like five days ago.

And I took it. And I was like,

you know what? I was like, I'm a girl who's going to be okay. It is, you know, like when you get,

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