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Allema alaakum rachmat.

Asa la com rachmat o'lah mahr almaO-Lahhi, or Barakato.

Many people develop a relationship with the opposite sex and don't realize that it is a Haram relationship

because it crosses the boundaries of what Islam has taught.

Yes, interaction with the opposite sex is permissible within certain limits,

but to flirt and thereafter to slide into the DMs and thereafter to start saying

inappropriate things to promise someone I love you I love you too and so on I

miss you I take care of you I do this I do that and then this person says this and that person says that and so on.

That's brewing a relationship that probably will end up in a lot of sadness and perhaps a lot of anxiety or depression at times because anything

that is planted with a harram seed would germinate a tree or a plant that is equally wrong.

May Allah Almighty protect all of us.

So it's difficult because young people, boys and girls get to interact, they get to meet with each other.

Many of them promise each other I'm going to marry you and so on, and they end up using one another, and and end of the day they throw each other out, and that's

it, the end of it, and who struggles and suffers. More so, the females suffer more than

the males, but sometimes the males suffer too. The reason is,

emotionally, a woman may get attached, a girl may get attached, be careful. A lot of the times what's being said is actually not genuine even if it sounds

very, very genuine. And sometimes it may be genuine to the degree where the guy does actually care for you.

But the way he is dealing with it is not in the pleasure of Allah and therefore

it won't end up in marriage as you wish or you thought because firstly maybe he can't even afford to be married and the Hadid says

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