Good evening, everybody. Welcome to the show. Got a great show plan for you. It's going to be a little bit of a split.

Going to do the first hour and a little bit of a more family friendly friendly material. And then the second

hour, we're going to talk about differing sex drives. Uh, opener is about dating app use for people with

anxiety or mental health issues. I thought this was kind of awesome because, you know, we live in a very neuroqueer, neurodivergent world, which basically means everyone has

different mental health needs. There is no, quote, unquote, correct type of brain to have. We all

have diverse needs. And bigger than that, we don't want to be ablest and just assume that everyone has

the same capacities or abilities. Something I was advocating a lot for

in a lot of earlier shows, and I want to remind myself to kind of come back to that, the idea that

everyone needs something different. There can be no one rule for everyone. It just doesn't work like that.

That's very ablest and really illegitimizing disabilities and different mental and physical needs that people have.

Not everyone can make it on time. Not everyone can sit still for the same amount of time.

Not everyone could have the same expectations placed upon them in terms of output, workload,

focus, concentration, or energy. Everyone is different. We have different bodies, different

neurologies. We are coming from different family backgrounds, different traumas. I just think about children in school. Some kids are coming from an abuse of families. Some kids are

coming from more loving supportive families. Some kids are coming from an absent caregiver family.

Different expectations and that child themselves have different needs. Someone, a child with a more,

what they might call an ADHD brain is not

going to be able to sit and focus for long periods of time that doesn't mean they're a bad student

or something's wrong with them etc etc etc some kids walk faster some kids walk slower we have

different needs and that's the same thing with adulthood so everyone needs something different

it cannot be well my other child can do this. That's why I

expect to the others. It doesn't work that way. That's quite violent. That's quite abusive. And it's not

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