Dead People Don't Have Any Secrets

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Podcasts

Business, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Careers, Relationships, Sexuality

4.6 • 7.6K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2021

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Amanda's husband Sam had a lot of secrets, most of which she discovered after his death. That made grieving, and moving on, a lot more complicated.

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0:00.0	Dead people don't have any secrets.
0:02.4	In fact, really sick people don't have any secrets.
0:06.0	This is Death, Sex, and Money.
0:13.3	The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot, and need to talk about more.
0:19.0	I'm Anna Sale.
0:21.0	The first few texts that came to my husband's phone were just kind of confusing.
0:37.5	And then it became more insistent.
0:40.9	Where are you?
0:41.9	Why are you not responding to me?
0:45.7	This is Amanda.
0:46.7	That's not her real name.
0:48.6	He first told us this in an email, but asked us to change all the names in this story to protect her family.
0:54.6	I did an internet search for the number.
0:59.6	I realized I knew who it was.
1:02.1	I wrote back and said,
1:04.1	This is Sam's wife.
1:06.1	He can't respond to you now.
1:09.1	He's in the hospital.
1:11.1	Please don't text anymore.
1:13.1	And Noah Point was that in Sam's coma.
1:16.6	He'd been in the hospital at that point for maybe three days.
1:21.1	I talked with Amanda where she works on the East Coast.
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