Dating, Loving & Leaving a Narcissist w/ Darlene Lancer
Adult Child
Andrea
4.9 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 21 September 2022
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
Darlene Lancer is a therapist and author of 10 books, including "Codependency For Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency". In today's episode, we discuss her personal journey of recovery, codependency and her latest book - Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships.
Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist, specializing in relationships, narcissism, and codependency. In her private clinical practice, she has treated individuals and couples for over 30 years and coaches internationally. She’s a sought-after speaker at national conferences, in media, and to professional groups and institutions. Before becoming a psychotherapist, Ms. Lancer was a successful entertainment lawyer.
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| 0:00.0 | I will always cherish the original misconception I had of you. |
| 0:07.4 | My name is Andrea and this is adult child. |
| 0:26.4 | Welcome back to adult child, where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family. |
| 0:33.4 | A Hoi shit shows. |
| 0:36.4 | I've never used a Hoi before. |
| 0:38.4 | I like a good Hoi, I like a good pirate. |
| 0:41.4 | Actually, if I'm going to say a Hoi, I better really put some more into it, right? |
| 0:47.4 | A Hoi! |
| 0:48.4 | That sounds horrible. |
| 0:49.4 | A Hoi shit shows. |
| 0:51.4 | Is that any good? |
| 0:52.4 | I think that was probably quite horrible. |
| 0:54.4 | I'm going to embrace it though. |
| 0:55.4 | I've always had this idea of what if I started a meeting, like an AA meeting or an ACA meeting, |
| 1:02.4 | where everyone was, it was pirate themed. |
| 1:06.4 | Like everyone was required to talk in a pirate voice and everyone was required to wear a pirate outfit. |
| 1:14.4 | What do you guys think? |
| 1:15.4 | Maybe I should start doing that on the Patreon. |
| 1:18.4 | What do you think Patreon folks? |
| 1:20.4 | Should we have like themes? |
| 1:22.4 | We should. |
| 1:23.4 | We definitely need to have a Halloween Zoom Halloween show. |
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