DATING AS A FIRST BORN DAUGHTER

The Slumflower Hour

W!ZARD Studios

Education, Self-improvement

4.9 • 549 Ratings

🗓️ 6 September 2024

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Are you a first born daughter who has been plagued by the perpetual sense of responsibility...even over the men you date? Has your first born daughter status evolved into a saviour complex? Do you feel like you need to be useful in order to be loved? Dear first born daughters, this one is for us! In this episode, join Chidera as she muses and reflects on her life and upbringing as a first born daughter - and how this has actually empowered her to be stern, bold and fearless in her self-advocacy when dating men. NEW DATE ADDED FOR MY SOLD OUT LIVE SHOW! Get tickets for my October 27th LIVE SHOW Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	What I've dedicated my life to is revenge.
0:04.7	A brand new drama based on the best-selling novel.
0:07.5	They think they're better than us?
0:08.5	Who do you think you are?
0:09.7	I'm going to prove to them that they're wrong.
0:11.5	She's punishing me.
0:13.0	You destroyed my family.
0:14.3	I will not rest until I've destroyed yours.
0:17.0	A woman of substance on Channel 4 starts tonight at 9.
0:22.2	Dating as a firstborn daughter is time.
0:26.8	It's time we discuss this.
0:28.5	Do you know what has inspired this particular topic today?
0:31.5	I've been seeing this particular video going round, which you've probably seen it too.
0:36.0	Because if you listen to my stuff, then your
0:38.5	algorithm is probably going to be showing you stuff that is very similar to what I discuss. I saw
0:42.9	this young black man, he made a TikTok, and he was saying, if you're dating a firstborn
0:48.5	daughter, you need to have money, you need to have your shit together, et cetera, et cetera.
0:52.7	But it made me think that, isn't it fascinating that it's totally okay for men to say
0:57.9	all the things that if I said, people would be like, this is so controversial, this is so
1:03.7	mean, this is so unrealistic.
1:05.6	But when a man says it, it's almost like we digest it differently and we add this level of validity to the point.
1:12.7	I'm not discrediting anything he said though because I think he's completely right.
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