Dating an Asexual (w/ Gigi Goode)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.9 • 16K Ratings
🗓️ 28 July 2023
⏱️ 107 minutes
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Summary
Drag queen Gigi Goode (Drag Race S12) joins Nicole for a supersized live episode of the podcast! They talk about her trans journey during the pandemic, how the type of people who are attracted to her has changed since transitioning, making friends through Tinder, and shares her experience being in a long term relationship with a partner who's asexual. She also tells just so many, bad, no awful, date stories.
Plus, an audience Q&A: Do queens get cozy on the set of Drag Race? Is it possible to date someone you're not attracted to? What's the best one-liner for a dating app? Dive in to find out!
Recorded live at The Elysian 4/5/2023.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, hi, hello, okay, do you have a burning question about dating sex or love that you'd like me and my guest to answer on the |
| 0:10.2 | podcast? Okay, because you can send it to why won't you date me podcast at jamele.com for a chance to have it read on an upcoming special episode of the show. |
| 0:19.6 | I hope to hear from you. |
| 0:30.0 | Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Please, tell me why. |
| 0:46.0 | Hi, mother fuckers! |
| 0:50.0 | How are you? |
| 0:52.0 | Good, how are you? |
| 0:54.0 | Okay, has any of you like, have any of you come to one of my like live why won't you date me as before? |
| 1:00.0 | Cool, great! |
| 1:06.0 | Well, we're gonna have fun! |
| 1:10.0 | Before we start, I'll tell you, I left my house without my wig today. |
| 1:14.0 | And the only reason I realize is because I pull down the little visor to be like, oh I have a lash stuck in, no hair! |
| 1:24.0 | Okay, I'm going to intro my guest who is stunning, gorgeous, was on season 12 of RuPaul's Drag Race. |
| 1:35.0 | Do you not know who it is? You seem so excited! |
| 1:39.0 | You literally went... |
| 1:42.0 | You don't know who it is? Okay, do you want to take a guess? |
| 1:48.0 | Come on, take a guess. |
| 1:50.0 | RuPaul. |
| 1:51.0 | Yes, please welcome from one season of Drag Race! |
| 1:56.0 | RuPaul, no it's G.J. Go! |
| 2:10.0 | G.J. thank you so much for being here. |
| 2:12.0 | They call, can I call you Nicole? |
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