Welcome back to Part 2 of Private Parts with me, Liv Bentley, and my glorious guest, Daisy.

But again, what would your advice be to anyone who's currently in a situation where you feel slightly like you're being stalked?

What would you suggest? Because the other thing I was thinking as well is that actually sometimes one doesn't quite realize what a shit situation or in,

until you tell a friend about it, and then they look on their faces, and then you go, okay, fine, actually, maybe this isn't quite right.

Yeah.

Because I think, I keep saying men, and it's more because I'm a woman and I think it's whatever but it's both parties can

obviously have these issues but I think guys can be incredibly controlling over things and you don't

quite realize the severity of it until you're either out of it or until you talk about it was to someone

else I think especially at the start of a relationship as well so you mentioned love bombing and

this is a huge thing and we brush over it so quickly. Can you

explain just in the beginning what love bombing it actually means? Yeah. So it's it is being excessive

with the love and attention that you are are giving someone and so in this sense, and again, this was mentioned by, I think, every single woman that I spoke to in this film, we spoke to men as well, but specifically women, because this seems to be something that men tend to do to women.

Every one of them said that they were showered with gifts, with time,

with attention, but the gifts that they were showered with, it was almost like they, these guys

were replacing the things that they already had. So, for example, a phone, their new boyfriend would say, let me get you a new phone, I'm going to upgrade your phone for you. And to these girls, it felt like a really sweet thing for them to do. But actually, replacing these items in your life is a way for them to weaponise those things three, six months a year down the line,

because then all of those things that you now have in your possession, they can take back.

So it's so love bombing is often the first step of abuse in a relationship.

It's a really, really early sign and it's a big red

flag. But where are young men learning this behaviour from? Because is it like you see family members

being like that? Or where are you getting, where is one seeing this? I think it's a bit of both.

I think there are statistics that say that if you have been around abuse as a child, if you have seen that or have grown up

in that sort of environment, you are more susceptible to not only falling into a relationship

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