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The Daily Stoic

Daily Stoic Sundays: This Is Your Most Important Job

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Society & Culture, 694393, Stoicism, Ryan Holiday, Business, Self-improvement, Philosophy, Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Education, Daily Stoic

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 June 2020

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

“How do we emulate the great parents of history? How do we work on improving ourselves at this essential job? The one for which we are given next to no training, for which many of us had less than ideal models for in our own childhood?”

Ryan talks about the importance of preparation for the role of a parent—and discusses a great way you can make yourself ready for this critical job.

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0:00.0

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today.

0:11.7

Welcome to the weekend edition of the Daily Stoic. Each weekday we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoic, something that can help you live up to those four

0:22.0

Stoic virtues of courage, justice, wisdom, and temperance. And here on the weekend we take a deeper dive into those same topics. We interview Stoic philosophers, we reflect, we prepare, we think deeply about the challenging issues of our time. And we work through this philosophy in a way that's more possible here when we're not rushing to worker to get the kids to school.

0:51.0

We have the time to think, to go for a walk, to sit with our journals and to prepare for what the future will bring.

1:00.0

Hello, I'm Hannah and I'm Syruti and we are the hosts of a Redhanded, a weekly true crime podcast. Every week on Redhanded we get stuck into the most talked about cases.

1:09.0

From the Idaho student killings, the Delphi murders and our recent rundown of the Murdoch saga.

1:15.0

Last year, we also started a second weekly show, Shorthand, which is just an excuse for us to talk about anything we find interesting because it's our show and we can do what we like.

1:23.0

We've covered the death of Princess Diana, an unholy Quran written in Saddam Hussein's blood, the gruesome history of European witch hunting, and the very uncomfortable phenomenon of genetic sexual attraction.

1:33.0

Whatever the case, we want to know what pushes people to the extremes of human behavior.

1:38.0

Like, can someone give consent to be cannibalized? What drives a child to kill? And what's the psychology of a terrorist?

1:44.0

Listen to Redhanded wherever you get your podcasts and access our bonus Shorthand episodes exclusively on Amazon Music or by subscribing to Wondry Plus in Apple Podcasts or the Wondry app.

1:56.0

This is your most important job. Some people delight in improving their farms.

2:01.0

Epictetus said some people find great pleasure in making more money or winning fame, but epictetus he delighted in improving himself day to day.

2:11.0

But still even here we can miss the point. Epictetus wasn't talking about getting better abs or mastering obscure literature.

2:19.0

He was talking about becoming a better person at working on things that really matter.

2:25.0

First and foremost among the things that really mattered to the Stoics was being a good parent. Where else does someone have such an enormous opportunity to impact the future than by raising their kids right?

2:38.0

Epictetus adopted a boy and raised him. Cato trained his daughter, Portia, in philosophy and expected as much of her as he did of his sons.

2:47.0

Musoneus Rufus explained most beautifully what parenting meant to the Stoics. He said, what a great spectacle it is when a husband or wife with many children are seen with these children crowded around them.

2:59.0

No procession conducted for the gods is as beautiful to look at and no ritual performed solemnly for a sacred occasion is as worthy of being watched as is a chorus of many children guiding their parents through the city leading them by the hand or otherwise caring for them.

3:16.0

What is more lovely than this spectacle? What is more worthy of emulation than these parents?

3:22.0

So that's really the question how do we emulate these great parents of history, these philosophers? How can we work on improving ourselves at this essential job?

3:32.0

The one for which we are given next to no training, the one for which many of us had less than ideal models in our own childhood.

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