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Well, my dad is going to leave my brother next to nothing when he dies and he's not telling him.

How do you know?

What did he tell you?

He told me that he set up a trust with a fiduciary and that he was going to lead different amounts to us three children in different ways.

And then he told me he had set up some other things in the

trust to protect it. Okay. So you said that the brothers left out, but you just said he's going to

leave something to the three of you. Is it a different amount of money? Or tell us more? Yes. He's going to, told me he was going to leave him 10,000 and what did

the other kids get i'm not sure because he hadn't said but um my sister he didn't tell me how

much he just told me that he was going to give her a large lump sum because she's the most fiscally prepared

for the future most fiscally responsible makes the most handles her money the best okay what about you

me yeah he so he set up monthly payments basically for 25 years oh how much 35 hundred per month okay how old are you

and 58 58 yeah um okay this uh 58. Yes.

Okay.

This sounds like your dad is pretty controlling.

It's a little bit gamesmanship manipulative the way he's handling all this.

Does that sound right?

No, I would not describe him that way all.

Then why isn't he just telling your brother?

I think it's because he has experienced a serious lack of respect. And things have happened in the past that have hurt an already struggling relationship, but struggled a lot pretty much from the very

beginning.

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