Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and on today's show

I'm talking with Sarah Sloan from the app hashtag open about how to find partners that want what you want

Should we all have that we also take calls about dating after divorce and ethical porn all this and way more thanks for listening

I know that I used to think when I was a young woman having sex that I didn't really think it was okay

To say no or to stop sex

Somebody who's being honest about here's what I'm looking for is here's what my boundaries are that

Automatically makes you sexier. It's important to learn to be present in the moment of so many reasons why mindfulness is important

Like reading your partner and you can ask them and say you know, hey, how's this feeling? Are you into this? Do you want to keep going?

Do you want to stop?

Into his eyes

They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex

Eyes that block our sacred institutions

Betrubized they call them in a fight on date

You're listening to sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

Around sex so today we continue with sex ed September by talking a little bit about consent

I mean obviously we've been having a very public conversation about it since you know

Me too movement started and rock consent to the spotlight

But still when it gets brought up do you notice that people get uncomfortable and some men today seem skittish and I understand that it could be

Uncomfortable, but how about this after listening today's episode you're actually gonna realize that consent can be sexy

And that you're gonna want consent well in the way I'm gonna talk about it because listen when you and your partner on the same page

Makes everything that much better

Something like formal contractual agreement that you sit down and you're gonna discuss it seriously

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