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🗓️ 29 January 2025
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On this episode of Transforming Trauma, CTTC Director and NARM® Senior Trainer Brad Kammer welcomes psychologist, author, and trainer Steven Kessler, MFT, to discuss the role that personality patterns play in our communication styles and how those patterns impact our relationships.
The pair delve into the origins of these patterns and the unconscious “safety” tactics associated with each. Brad and Steven also examine strategies for developing an ability to listen and respond to one another in a more holistic and conscious manner.
About Steven Kessler:
After a stint studying physics at MIT, followed by an undergraduate degree in acting from Boston University, and four years at the New England Repertory Theatre, Steven Kessler’s deep interest in the human psyche led him to earn an MA in Transpersonal Psychology. For over 30 years, he has been a licensed psychotherapist. Steven has been studying different healing modalities and maps of personality, including Character Structure, the Enneagram, NLP, energy work, Thought Field Therapy, and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). He is a certified EFT Expert & Trainer.
For over three decades, Steven has also pursued spiritual and meditation practices, including 16 years in the Diamond Heart meditation school. For over 15 years, he has been a student of Lynda Caesara, studying Character Structure, the direct perception of energy, and shamanism in the lineage of Grandfather Two Bears and the Southern Seers tradition. Steven has taught hundreds of groups and workshops in the US and internationally, and recently has trained other therapists in the use of EFT.
His bestselling book, The 5 Personality Patterns, deepens the insights of character structure and introduces its map of the human personality to the general public. In his latest book, How To Have Better Relationships, Steven outlines techniques for deepening interpersonal relationships based on the five personality patterns.
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0:00.0 | Welcome to the Transforming Trauma podcast. Transforming Trauma is presented by the Complex |
0:10.3 | Trauma Training Center. I'm your host, Emily Ruth, and I'm so glad you've joined us today. |
0:15.8 | As a mental health professional, you care for others, and the complex trauma training center is committed |
0:22.3 | to caring for you. We are thrilled to introduce our space program 2025, an inner development |
0:29.3 | program of support and self-discovery for therapists on the personal, interpersonal, and trans-personal levels. |
0:36.6 | Therapists often focus so much on learning skills to use with clients that we don't leave space for ourselves. |
0:43.3 | This interactive experiential program offers an immersive learning environment designed to cultivate space for ourselves in our professional role. |
0:52.3 | As Victor Frankel taught, between stimulus and response, there is a space. |
0:57.0 | In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom. |
1:04.0 | Starting February through December 2025, we will host six online sessions designed to cultivate space for self-care and self-discovery. |
1:13.2 | We will be exploring the obstacles that stand in your way of being the most present, heartful, |
1:18.3 | and effective therapist possible. |
1:20.7 | Together we will explore in a safe, inclusive, and supportive environment with the intention |
1:25.7 | to create greater effectiveness and resilience |
1:28.2 | in our professional lives. Please visit Complex Trauma Training Center.com and secure your spot |
1:34.3 | in the space program. It's time to care for you. |
1:42.5 | And now for our interview. |
1:45.2 | Stephen Kessler earned his master's in transpersonal psychology and has been a licensed |
1:49.6 | psychotherapist for almost 30 years. |
1:52.1 | He has pursued various spiritual and meditation practices, studying many different healing |
1:56.8 | modalities and maps of personality. |
1:59.4 | Since 1984, Stephen has taught hundreds of groups |
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