Couples Working Through Betrayal Trauma with Stephanie Carnes
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 March 2020
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D. is the President of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, a training institute and professional organization for addiction professionals, and a senior fellow for Meadows Behavioral Healthcare where she works with sexually addicted clients and their families. Dr. Carnes is the clinical architect for Willow House: Relationship Healing for Women struggling with sex, love and intimacy disorders and works closely with the staff of Willow House and Gentle Path to bring her unique expertise to the programs and to aid the clients who suffer from intimacy and relationship disorders. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AAMFT approved supervisor. Dr. Carnes is also a clinical sexologist and certified sex addiction therapist and supervisor, specializing in therapy for couples and families struggling with sexual addiction. She presents regularly at conferences at both the state and national levels. She is also the author of numerous publications including her books, Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts, and Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts, and Facing Addiction: Starting Recovery from Alcohol and Drugs. Her new book, scheduled to be released in may is titled “Courageous Love: A Guide for Couples Conquering Betrayal”.
We are glad you found our season 3 episodes where we share some of our most advanced learnings and bring amazing experts on when it comes to relationships, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information.
We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
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| 0:00.0 | All right? Can couples actually heal from betrayal or are Ashland and Kobe the only ones? |
| 0:07.0 | We are so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive after betrayal trauma or addiction. |
| 0:13.4 | Hi I'm Ashland the once betrayed. I'm Kobe the ones addicted and I'm Brandon the |
| 0:17.9 | expert now why am I an expert because I've treated betrayal trauma and addiction |
| 0:22.3 | for over a decade. |
| 0:24.1 | Well, we know the answer to that, but we're gonna answer it anyway. |
| 0:27.9 | All right, I'm gonna start with a quick response. |
| 0:30.5 | We had a lot of great feedback from last week's podcast episode with Dr. Rob and so I just wanted to share some of the comments from that |
| 0:38.6 | This one says I have loved every episode, but man this one really resonated with me as a betrayed. |
| 0:44.8 | Wow, oh wow, my husband and I have both shown empathy for one another throughout this process, |
| 0:49.2 | but this episode really had me in the fields. Thank you for having this guest on. |
| 0:53.8 | Please do another. |
| 0:55.0 | Thank you, Ashland Kobe and Brandon. |
| 0:57.6 | Thank you, thank you. |
| 0:58.4 | Yeah. |
| 0:59.8 | All right. |
| 1:00.8 | So we have with us today just an amazing guest. |
| 1:04.4 | And I can't believe she's here with us on our show today. |
| 1:07.3 | So I'm really happy. |
| 1:09.7 | It's Stephanie Carnes. |
| 1:11.7 | And so I'm gonna introduce her here a little bit and tell you all the amazing things that she's doing. |
| 1:16.0 | She's the president of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, which by the way you guys is the foundation or the |
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