Couples Coaching: Anya & Bodhi Part 2 - Jayson Gaddis - #490

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 12 March 2024

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

Jayson coaches the couple, Anya and Bodhi. The last time this couple appeared on the podcast was in episode #364 when they were in the midst of deciding whether to stay together or break up. Since their last appearance, they have grown into a strong and stable couple. In this episode, they discuss the turning point in their relationship that led to them staying together. They also work through current tensions in their relationship related to conflicting schedules and navigating a small living space. You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

5:17 - Anya & Bodhi's turning point
13:23 - Individual growth
20:00 - Getting to the root of relationship tension
33:34 - Feeling trapped by a lack of connectedness
39:05 - Spontaneity vs. responsibility
43:00 - Different schedules
47:00 - Helping your partner feel less judged
1:00:30 - Being true to yourself vs. being considerate
1:08:59 - Action step

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0:00.0	Wow, I actually can be okay without voting.
0:03.0	And like I will be okay without you,
0:07.0	even though that was so heartbreaking for me. Hey Jason Gatis here. Welcome to the Relationship School Podcast. This show focuses on human behavior, psychology and relationships. It's for people who are into growth and development. It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance and self-mastery.
0:30.0	If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself, and more fulfilling relationships with others, this show is for you.
0:37.0	It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being, and your longevity will be determined by how much
0:44.4	confidence you have in your most important relationships including the one
0:48.3	with yourself. All right in this episode I've got something really cool.
0:54.0	It's a coaching session with a couple.
0:58.0	Onya and Bodie, they're back. It's been three years since I've seen them. If you want to check out that episode go to 364 of our podcast to hear the first session and in the first session they were
1:17.3	Bodi was one foot in one foot out and on you was like, are we or aren't we?
1:25.0	Well, three years later, they are both in a very committed relationship
1:30.0	and it feels pretty secure to me and strong.
1:35.0	And they're very, as you'll see here and listen,
1:39.5	they're very willing and able. They're using great communication. They're really trying to
1:45.7	understand each other. This is not a high conflict couple. This is a couple that
1:51.9	like a lot of us just just struggles with some of the reactions that we have toward
1:58.6	one another and some, like how do I balance what I want to do and consider my partner at the same time?
2:07.2	How do I be true to myself and get what I want?
2:10.0	So I think you're going to enjoy this. I didn't do hardly any coaching because these two are doing so well without my assistance.
2:22.1	Only toward the latter half of the session do I offer a few things that I think are valuable.
2:26.7	So I'll make a few comments as we go, but I just encourage way they're speaking
2:35.0	the way they're speaking so that you can adopt
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