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On the Media

Coming Out Posthumously

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🗓️ 20 June 2019

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

When astronaut Sally Ride died, it raised the question of how deeply an obituary should delve into the private lives of public people.

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0:00.0

June marks LGBT Pride Month. It's also the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riot,

0:07.6

when members of the gay community rose up in defiance of a police raid at a Greenwich Village Tavern,

0:13.9

launching the modern LGBT rights movement in the United States.

0:17.9

In the past five decades, we've seen that movement make great strides,

0:22.3

the mainstreaming of homosexuality, the legalization of gay marriage, the repeal of don't ask,

0:29.0

don't tell, and now in about a dozen states, gender neutral IDs. The conversation around

0:36.2

gay rights has moved so quickly, in fact, that it can be

0:39.7

hard to remember where we were in the very recent past. Well, here's a reminder from our archives.

0:47.1

After the 2012 death of Sally Ride, the first American woman to go into space, the world learned

0:53.8

something new about the pioneering astronaut,

0:56.4

that Ride was, in fact, a lesbian, survived by her partner of 27 years, a woman by the name of Tam O'Shaughnessy.

1:05.1

This previously unknown detail of Ride's life was mentioned in one line at the end of a lengthy obituary in the New York

1:12.7

Times. Reaction to the Times obit ranged from criticism for posthumously outing Ride to criticism

1:20.0

for not outing her enough, raising the question of just how deeply an obituary should delve

1:26.2

into the private life of a public person.

1:29.8

Back then, I spoke with Bill McDonald, the obituary editor at the Times,

1:34.1

about the ethics and obligations of Obit writers in telling the story of the dead.

1:40.7

Now, the Obit didn't reference her sexual preference.

1:43.7

It just simply made reference to her longtime

1:46.7

partner, who happens to be a woman. That's right. When we were trying to find out who

1:50.8

her survivors might be, the only information we could go on was a statement released on her

1:56.4

website, which described Dr. O'Shaughnessy as her companion of 27 years. And of course, we reported that.

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