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The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

CNLP 732 | When You Want To Punch a Hole in the Wall: Kyle Idleman on Vulnerability, Insecurity and the Spiritual Gift of Disappointing People

The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

Carey Nieuwhof

Management, Business

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Kyle Idleman discusses why it's easier to admit a fault on stage than to a friend in person, the times you feel like you want to punch a hole in the wall (and what to do about it), vulnerability, insecurity, and the spiritual gift of disappointing people.

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0:00.0

The Art of Leadership Network.

0:02.9

I had a friend, really good friends say to me, he said, I feel like I find out about your

0:11.5

struggles by reading about them in a book or listening to one of your sermons.

0:18.5

What's he saying to me?

0:19.7

He's saying, hey, we get together for breakfast,

0:24.1

we sit on your front porch. You don't share those things with me, but you share them in the

0:28.5

stage or you put him in a book. And what I was confronted with was this question of why is it

0:34.2

harder for me to share it with him?

0:42.1

Welcome.

0:42.9

The Carrie Newhoff Leadership podcast.

0:44.7

It's Carrie here, and I hope our time together today helps you thrive in life and leadership.

0:49.4

Well, like I said on the last episode, we're kind of going deep.

0:52.2

We're getting personal.

0:53.3

I don't know whether it's a season for me or what it is, but I hope this helps you. You know, if you are better

0:59.6

on the inside, your leadership is going to be better on the outside. Kyle Eidleman and I sit down

1:05.6

and have a conversation all about that. What do you do when you want to punch a hole in the wall?

1:10.3

Kyle talks pretty

1:11.4

openly about vulnerability, insecurity, and the spiritual gift of disappointing people. I think

1:17.0

you're going to really love this. Hey, you know what? I got an announcement for you that I'm really

1:21.5

excited about. We are changing how we do the show notes. So I want you to think about, you know,

1:26.3

a lot of young leaders listening to this show, but, you know, 10 years ago, people used to have decent conversations on the internet.

1:33.9

That's gone. Believe it or not, that actually did happen for a while. And one of the secret missions

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