Closing Your Eyes Is Not An Excuse

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🗓️ 29 January 2019

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

In Richard III, Shakespeare has a scene where Brackenbury is handed orders from Richard by two men who clearly plan to murder the King’s brother. His response echos down through the ages as an example of willful and cowardly ignorance. As he replies after reading the orders:

I am in this commanded to deliver

The noble duke of Clarence to your hands.

I will not reason what is meant hereby

Because I will be guiltless from the meaning.

This idea that we can close our eyes to the implications of something and therefore remain unstained by it is common. Shakespeare knew this. It’s the story of Seneca tutoring Nero in the arts of persuasion and strategy and then pretending that he did not know that he was putting a loaded weapon in the hands of a madman. It was the many leaders before the Second World War who read Hitler’s works but refused to take them seriously—to tell themselves they didn’t know what he would do when he had power. It’s the bosses (and investors) at Uber and Facebook who knew their respective companies had installed a win-at-all costs mentality and then pretended to be shocked when the winning came at a very high cost. It’s the story of the boards of directors and the executives at Hollywood studios and other businesses that turned a blind eye to sexual harassers or sent vulnerable women to be alone with someone they knew had abused their power in the pa

Oprah has a great line: When people tell you who they are, you should believe them. But we often decline to do this, less out of stupidity than out of greed and fear (and occasionally, laziness). It’s easier not to probe. It’s easier not to get involved. If we let the truth sink in, then we have to get involved, and acting against the malicious is scary. So we deliberately don’t see the truth. If we step in, we might lose an income stream (as the folks at Uber would have if they had reigned in their ‘rockstar’ execs) or make an enemy (as Seneca would have in Nero had he stood up to him) or lose our lives (as any in the German leadership may have to Hitler as he rose to power).

We don’t want to be bothered. We are afraid. So we lie to ourselves. Or we look the other way.

We think this makes us guiltless, but it doesn’t. It stains us more so. It haunts us too, particularly as the years pass and we look back at our own cowardice and failures.

A Stoic stands up. A Stoic steps in. A Stoic doesn’t close their eyes. A Stoic calls a fraud a fraud when they see them. Even if it costs them. Even if it hurts.

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0:36.3	Closing your eyes is not an excuse. In Richard III, Shakespeare has a scene where Brackenbury is handed orders from Richard by two men who clearly plan to murder the King's brother.
0:49.3	His response echoes down through the ages as an example of willful and cowardly Ictwards. As he replies after reading the orders,
0:58.3	I am in this commanded to deliver the noble Duke of Clarence to your hands. I will not reason what is meant hereby because I will be guiltless from the meaning.
1:10.3	This idea that we can close our eyes to the implications of something and therefore remain unstained by it is common. Shakespeare knew this.
1:19.3	It is the story of Seneca tutoring Nero in the arts of persuasion and strategy and then pretending that he did not know that he was putting a loaded weapon in the hands of a madman.
1:31.3	It was the many leaders before the Second World War who read Hitler's work that refused to take them seriously, to tell themselves that they didn't know what he would do when he had the power.
1:42.3	It is the bosses and investors at Uber and Facebook who knew their respective companies had installed a win at all cost mentality and then pretended to be shocked when the winning came at a very high cost.
1:56.3	Oprah has a great line when people tell you who they are you should believe them. But we often decline to do this, less out of stupidity than out of greed and fear and occasionally laziness.
2:10.3	It is easier not to probe, it is easier not to get involved. If we let the truth sink in then we have to get involved and acting against the malicious is scary.
2:21.3	So we deliberately don't see the truth. If we step in we might lose an income stream as the folks at Uber would if they had reigned in those rock star executives or make an enemy as Seneca would have in Nero had he stood up to them or lose our lives as many in the German leadership may have to Hitler.
2:39.3	We don't want to be bothered so we lie to ourselves and we look the other way. We think this makes us guiltless but it doesn't. It stains us more so. It haunts us too particularly as the years pass and we look back on our own cowardice and failures.
2:59.3	Astolic stands up. Astolic steps in. Astolic doesn't close their eyes. Astolic calls fraud a fraud when they see it even if it costs them even if it hurts.
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