So Matt are you proposing?

You said you were you said you wouldn't do it like this on the podcast

Well luckily for everybody involved it turns out that you are my friend already a married man

Are you got me? Okay, all right. Well, well, that's probably better for everybody

I I wanted to ask you this has been on my mind for a while

I wanted to ask you when you got married

Did you feel pressured

Not by not by your lovely spouse is a friend of mine as well like did you feel pressured by society to get a diamond?

I felt the pressure

Of that which creates diamonds upon carbon

Yeah, they're yeah

I don't even know how to state it at the time when I got married

There was no other option the there was the possibility to get a sapphire

I think like maybe if you were if you were just out there enough you could get a sapphire instead of a diamond

But you had to finesse it right like yeah, okay your PR had to be really good

Yeah, and then the pressure

Internally from the spouse was yeah, let's go with the diamond. Oh, yeah, well. Yeah

Yeah, yeah, that that makes sense and you know sometimes as they say you have to one must pick their battles

But it's interesting when we say that you had to have good PR if you were going to go for a sapphire or some other precious stone because

There is a tremendous amount of

Money time and as we'll see blood poured into the ongoing PR campaign to make people feel like they have to have a

Diamond and in this week's classic episode we dive deep into

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