Cindy Gallop - The Surprising Benefits of Staying SINGLE

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FlightStory

Leisure, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 652 Ratings

🗓️ 26 November 2024

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Do younger partners make you happier? In this episode, Cindy Gallop, founder of Make Love Not Porn, shares her bold perspective on living authentically and challenging societal norms. From rejecting pressures to marry or have children to embracing the joy of dating younger men, Cindy redefines intimacy and celebrates individuality. Drawing on her successful advertising career and groundbreaking work in reshaping conversations about sex and relationships, she offers insights on breaking free from conventional expectations to live a uniquely fulfilling life. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that encourages you to rethink what it means to live on your own terms. Follow Cindy Here: Cindy's Instagram https://g2ul0.app.link/neknglRJJOb MakeLoveNotPorn Instagram https://g2ul0.app.link/ANV19lVJJOb MakeLoveNotPorn Fundraiser https://g2ul0.app.link/3nwgfqdMJOb Support MakeLoveNotPorn Here: https://www.wefunder.com/makelovenotporn Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod 00:00 Introduction: Who Is Cindy Gallop? 02:02 What Does "Cindy’s Brand" Really Mean? 03:45 How Cindy Views Herself vs. How The World Sees Her 04:25 How Cindy’s Background Shaped Her Authentic Self 06:28 Steps To Embracing Your Authentic Self 09:00 Breaking Down The Most Harmful Societal Norms 12:07 Has Cindy Ever Experienced True Romantic Love? 13:47 Why Cindy Isn’t Focused On Finding Romantic Love 15:44 Why Young Men Are Choosing To Date Older Women 17:51 What’s The Age Gap Between Cindy And The Men She Dates? 20:56 Why Cindy Gallop’s Relationships Are Different From Love 24:53 Will Traditional Ideas About Love And Family Ever Change? 25:47 How To Stop External Pressures From Influencing Your Choices 27:19 The Dangerous Myth Of “The One” In Relationships 28:44 How Cindy Maintains Successful Relationships With Younger Men 35:25 Debunking The Myth Of The “Nuclear Family” 37:58 Advertising’s Misrepresentation Of Age And Its Impact 42:34 Is “Make Love Not Porn” Competing With Mainstream Porn? 46:26 Why Cindy Created “Make Love Not Porn” And Its Mission 53:16 What Is The Social-Sexual Revolution “Make Love Not Porn” Aims To Spark? 58:49 How “Make Love Not Porn” Differs From Mainstream Porn’s Addictive Traits 01:02:18 Cindy Gallop’s Definition Of True Consent 01:05:23 Can Sharing Your Sex Life Help Correct Misconceptions About Sex? 01:08:11 A Look At Paul’s Research On “Make Love Not Porn” 01:11:21 Cindy’s Innovative Approach To Educating Young People About Sex 01:13:42 How And When Parents Should Talk To Kids About Sex And Porn 01:16:15 Inside The “Make Love Not Porn” Academy 01:22:03 Cindy Gallop’s Most Memorable Conversations Sponsored by: Fiverr: https://fvrr.co/paul Huel: https://huel.com/paul/ use code PAUL Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Today's guest is Cindy Gallup, entrepreneur, advertising consultant, and coach,
0:06.0	renowned for her outspoken advocacy for authenticity in life and relationships.
0:12.0	As the founder of the unique adult media platform Make Love Not Porn, she's revolutionized
0:17.0	how we think about sex and relationships by challenging many of the outdated societal norms.
0:23.5	From her highly successful career in advertising to her fearless rejection of traditional expectations,
0:29.5	Cindy demonstrates how embracing your own sense of individuality can lead to a unique and fulfilling way of life.
0:35.9	In this episode, we dive into Cindy's unique approach to dating in life.
0:40.0	I'm interviewed a lot, okay.
0:41.7	Lovely woman said to me,
0:43.1	do you have a daily self-care practice?
0:46.2	And I went, oh yeah, yeah.
0:47.2	No, I absolutely have a daily self-care practice.
0:49.9	My daily self-care practice is,
0:51.4	I have no husband, I have no children.
0:54.5	We speak about Cindy's new adult media platform and its positive and powerful mission.
0:59.7	But kind of what Facebook would be if it allowed you to openly, healthily, sexually self-expressed, which it clearly doesn't.
1:07.1	If porn is the Hollywood blockbuster movie, make love not porn is the badly needed documentary.
1:13.4	And we touch on Sydney's advice for parents navigating 21st century challenges.
1:18.2	The average age of which a child stumbles across porn first season is six years old.
1:22.5	Six years old.
1:23.7	And that survey was done 11 years ago.
1:26.6	Before we get into it, I just want to mention something interesting that we've noticed recently.
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