CIA Spy: Spot This Red Flag & Never Get F*CKED With Again!

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2026

⏱️ 76 minutes

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You know those moments when your gut is screaming “RED FLAG” but you can’t prove it and everyone else is acting like it’s totally normal?This episode is your toolkit for decoding those vibes, spotting deception, and reclaiming your power… even in the stickiest, most manipulated situations. I'm sitting down with Andrew Bustamante, former CIA spy, for a deep dive into body language, lying, manipulation, and why our culture lets certain people (especially celebrities!) get away with so much.We break down infamous confrontations: Denise Richards & Aaron Phypers, Kevin Federline & Britney Spears, Cardi B, so you get the REAL story behind the headlines and learn how to protect yourself when someone is trying to play you. If you are DONE being gaslit, dismissed, or sidetracked by guilt, get your notebook ready! Here’s exactly what we dive into: The blink-rate and body-language tricks that expose liars instantly Emotional abuse vs. physical abuse: why gender bias warps our perception Tactical questions you can use to get the truth (from your partner, boss, or anyone in your life) SHOW NOTES Chivalry vs. Control: Denise Richards & Aaron Phypers Breakdown Emotional Damage: Are Men Also Victims? Kevin Federline’s Memoir: Truth or Manipulation? Britney Spears’ Videos: What Her Self-Presentation Reveals Courtroom Showdown: Veracity vs. Exaggeration Cardi B’s Testimony: Nervousness, Preparation, and Rehearsed Lines Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com AirDoctor: Up to $300 off with code LISA https://airdoctorpro.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com Want to learn more from Andrew Bustamante? Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andrew on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andrew’s sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:49.5	and trained to spot lies, be able to read people in just seconds, and survive on his gut instincts.
0:57.1	So he's teaching us all the tactics so by the end of this episode, you actually will know
1:02.0	how to spot a lie and decode body language like a CIA spy.
1:06.3	Now here's what we're about to uncover.
1:08.3	How to spot manipulation in action.
1:10.7	This is straight from Denise Richards' explosive divorce and the actions and the turmoil that
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