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The Brian Buffini Show

Choosing Hope in a Racially Divided Culture with Miles McPherson #222

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Brian Buffini

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4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2020

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

“The greatest thing we can do is love our neighbor as ourselves.” — Miles McPherson

 

In this episode, Brian interviews Miles McPherson about his book, “The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation,” in which he explains that we must learn to see people not by the color of their skin, but as humans created in the image of God. Miles also talks about his time in the NFL, how he overcame his drug addiction and how he went on to found the Rock Church in San Diego.

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

  • How Miles has navigated his faith journey.
  • How he built his organization.
  • His top three tips for honoring somebody.

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation,” by Miles McPherson

How to Read a Book,” by Mortimer J. Adler and Charles Van Doren

www.milesmcpherson.com

The Rock Church San Diego

 

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:

“I think the secret sauce for me was being real. I mean, I talk about my sins all the time.” — Miles McPherson

“As a church, we're trying to bring hope to every person we can, loving people where they're at.” — Miles McPherson

“Whenever you're going through a trial and you wonder where God is, just remember that during the test the teacher is always silent.” — Anonymous

“Be a servant. And understand what service you are providing to your customer.” — Miles McPherson

“This book is about honoring what we have in common.” — Miles McPherson

“We're all made in the image of God. We're all made for the purpose and with the ability to have loving relationships with each other.” — Miles McPherson

“This book is going to teach us how to recognize the blind spots that we have; how to get over the fear that we have, the ignorance that we have; how to understand, how to love correctly. It’s going to give us tools to honor one another and develop stronger relationships with each other, no matter what we look like.” — Miles McPherson

“When people think about having a race conversation, they always think about, well, I would assume, a race confrontation. Really, it should be a race consultation.” — Miles McPherson

“Speak to people with a posture of learning and not assuming.” — Miles McPherson

“In our country, we're looking at people, we're thinking everybody's a monster. But really, we're just brothers.” – Miles McPherson

 

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0:00.0

Top of the morning, Tia, and welcome to the Brian Bafini show.

0:20.4

We're actually bringing a re-broadcast of an episode I recorded about 18 months ago.

0:26.8

It was called the third option.

0:28.6

That's the name of a book that a good friend of mine, Miles McPherson, published about.

0:34.0

Two years ago, Miles is a former San Diego charger football player.

0:39.3

As an African-American growing up, here in America, he experienced a lot of the trials that

0:43.4

go along with that, became a famous football player, and then went on to build one of the

0:49.0

largest mega churches in the United States.

0:51.7

A church considered the most racially diverse church in America.

0:56.2

He's a brilliant man, he's a charismatic dude, and he also has some great insights and

1:01.4

some practical ways for all of us to introduce the concept of respect, take away the us and

1:07.8

them mentality, and bring us all to a place where we can all genuinely be one nation under

1:14.3

God.

1:16.3

This is a re-broadcast, something we don't do very often at the Brian Bafini show, but

1:20.5

I think with everything that's going on today, it's important to refresh on principles and

1:25.8

practices that can bring understanding, harmony, and unity in joy.

1:34.0

Now Miles is a former NFL defensive back he played for my hometown San Diego Chargers,

1:41.0

and then made a very unusual career change, went from being an NFL guy where he's hitting

1:45.1

people for a living to become a pastor.

1:48.4

He's the pastor of the rock church right here in Sonny San Diego, one of the most influential

1:53.1

churches in the country, about 20,000 people a weekend come to this church, five campuses,

2:00.1

online services, they do all kinds of work in the community, with prisons, thrift stores,

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