So, Bardo, I have some emails that I thought we would read and answer on the podcast and see if anything of interest comes out of either one or both of our faces. What do you say, um Berto? That sounds like a fabulous notion.

This is the psychology and Seattle podcast.

I'm your host Dr Kirkconda.

I'm a therapist and I'm also a professor.

Who are you?

My name is Umbero Castignia and I make screen savers for Windows 95.

My goal for the latter part of 2020 is to pronounce your name in 15 different ways in every episode.

That's a valiant goal.

So this first one is from Ramona from Ontario, she asks.

Is it wrong to go through someone's phone

or check their browsing history?

Does this violate their personal privacy?

Umm, bad, da, da, da, da, da, what do you think? Yeah. privacy. saying that it is wrong to have you know concern that maybe someone is lying to you

or whatever of course if you if you feel bad or if you feel like you can't trust

someone that's a problem you should definitely address that but in my opinion the way to address that

is directly to have a conversation with that person and if you still have reason for doubt maybe you should

make a change but like breaking into people stuff and spying, I mean unless this was like some sort of, you know, you fear someone's life is in danger and you're a cop and you know what you're doing or something.

No.

Right, yeah.

The answer is yes, it's wrong under most circumstances.

You know, let's analyze what moral behavior is.

What would you say is the difference

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