Cheating and Codependence
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 November 2024
⏱️ 72 minutes
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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.
00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision?
02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition?
08:43 Dependent personality spectrum
12:18 Why do I want to cheat?
20:35 OPP 2022
21:30 Psychology "Hacks"
28:03 Grey Rocking
36:25 Mug-level OPP 2022
37:50 Can I report a therapist friend?
41:04 How do I accept an apology?
46:26 What drives the dynamic of an over/underfunctioner relationship?
55:02 How does pressure as a child star impact them?
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November 11, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Deservant listeners. So it is Monday, and I thought I would answer some emails from patrons. |
| 0:06.8 | I haven't been able to do this in a while, and I'm looking forward to doing this. Also, |
| 0:11.9 | I'm dedicating myself to going as quickly as possible. I feel like I've been yammering too much lately, |
| 0:16.7 | and there's a lot of emails that I want to get to. This first email is from patron Jimbo. |
| 0:22.1 | He asks, |
| 0:23.1 | What supervision model did you follow as a supervisor and why? |
| 0:28.2 | What supervision model did I follow? |
| 0:31.1 | Well, I wrote a book on supervision, |
| 0:34.1 | and the first or second chapter, probably second chapter, |
| 0:37.0 | I review the different |
| 0:40.0 | models of supervision that are sprinkled throughout history and why those models emerged and whatnot. |
| 0:47.4 | But the very short answer that I'll say is the model that I follow is my own, which is what I call multi-role |
| 0:55.6 | clinical supervision. And it entails 19 distinct roles that are categorized into four |
| 1:03.2 | umbrella categories. 19 is a very bothersome number. I really tried to come up with a 20th, but that seemed like shoehorning in |
| 1:12.7 | things. But those roles, and there's a type of supervision model that involves identifying |
| 1:21.2 | roles that was pretty influential on me. But the four umbrella role categories that I have are relationship roles, |
| 1:33.5 | public safeguarding roles, skill building roles, and guiding roles. So relationship roles are |
| 1:40.7 | attachment between the supervisee and the supervisor empathy this kind of |
| 1:46.9 | listening public safeguarding involves gatekeeping and monitoring skill building involves |
| 1:53.2 | teaching and guiding and then there's guiding roles which involves like mentoring and being |
| 1:59.9 | there to help them in their career, that kind of stuff. |
| 2:03.1 | So if you want to read about all that, you can check out my book, Multirol Clinical Supervision. |
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