Welcome back to Part 2 of Private Parts with me, Liv Bentley, and my glorious guest this week,

MSALE and Bella Campbell.

I said this to Bella earlier, and I think, not that I find it frustrating, but I think because our goal is almost similar with Jomo what we're trying to do is put sex back into a positive light just because I think that is even when I when we started Jomo people would say things like oh people were sort of shocked by and then there was a lot of we don't need Loub or all the blokes it was very much the men saying we don't need Lou. What I have noticed recently and I don't know if it is because of things like OnlyFans or Bonnie Blue is that actually the world we're trying to change and put into a positive light, I feel like there are steps back now because of things like that. Do you think it is affected? Not your business but it's just changed a lot of the way that people may view

killing kittens and what you do. I think it's sort of, I think we're kind of running in two

parallel universes in the Western world with, you know, with the like, you know, that trad wife

and the Bonnie Blue and, you know, the opposite takes and like it, it's sort of, and then you've got the kind of this train that, you know,

where I'm on and you're on,

that is that female empowerment and gender equality across it all

and the confidence gap and, and that,

and actually being equal and letting everyone be human.

And, you know, in their own little niches and doing whatever they

want and without judgment and it's our choices and so that, you know, we, we run on that.

And then you have got that, the kind of Bonnie Blue Chain, which runs with the kind of, you know,

the online porn and what it's doing to teenage boys and men in general. And knocking women's confidence, I think also the other thing as well, which I've picked up on or we get messages a lot, is from women saying that they don't feel sexually confident. Because of, I think, because of the porn industry, women look a certain way. And I think guys don't appreciate, majority of women actually don't look like that. And especially young boys when the first thing they watch is porn probably, with their first wank is probably watching porn. It's not going to be where they go. But no one has vaginas like that. No one has tears like that. We don't make those noises. No. The noise is out of control. And even in like movies, like you know when people have sex, I forget its the door. It's all beautified.

I've never, and I've really got splinters in my ass.

It doesn't happen that way.

I mean, good luck with a man trying to get me up and a door. Yeah, try having sex in the shower. As if you're going to have sex in a bath or a freaking swimming pool. No, even a car. It's never one. Honestly, they've got to stop making it unrealistic.

And also, you know, all these women orgasm with that in about 20 seconds.

And most women don't orgasm for penitial sex. Because that's another massive misconception. I think that's where there's not a lack of education, but I don't think younger, I feel for late teens who are sort of first getting into their like sexual experiences and stuff, what they are going off is something that's like a complete false reality of how it really is. And sex ed is so backwards. Oh, sex ed is, we speak about this all the time because I mean, my sex ed was putting a condom on a banana in a box. They still do that. But I can't believe that. I still do it. And I didn't get any. Oh, you didn't. I just had to learn for myself as I went along. But even that in itself, I remember like having a conversation talking about sort of female masturbation, that was so different. Boys could easily talk about, oh, they had a wank here and there. For girls suddenly said, yeah, well, I had a wank. There's something so different about it. And they learn about wet dreams. It's like my 11 year oldyear-old last year, he learned about wet dreams in year five. When it was nine, ten, that was part of, and you just go, you know, they're teaching that that's totally normal and allowed and whatever bit. If a girl touches us. As teen, you know, even when you get to teenage sex, they're still not really getting into female pleasure. It's what they're exposed to, that's my fear, of how, I know they've changed the porn age

and how you get access to...

I got done for that because they went fucking wild. I didn't add for offcom.

And it was basically saying that kids under the age of 18 had to show their ID so that they

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