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We're Having Gay Sex

Casey Tanner & Your Queer Relationship Questions

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Society & Culture, Comedy, Comedy Interviews

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 January 2022

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time. You can find Casey on: IG: @queersextherapy, And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/ Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting https://www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5gKExymsCA0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:59.7

Eating pussy is not what makes people gay. There are two really important truths that

1:04.3

exist at the same time. Queerness has nothing to do with behavior. On the other side, it

1:08.5

is connective to talk about all the things that are super gay. A astrology is super gay,

1:13.1

right? Those things aren't actually neatly gay, but gay people tend to like to do them,

1:17.5

so we enjoy saying those things. Some people will go their entire lives without having gay

1:21.9

sex, and it doesn't make them any last gay. Look, people get to self-define, right? If

1:25.9

a bi-person and a straight man don't feel like the sex they're having is gay, then

1:30.7

it's okay.

1:31.7

That sucks, honestly.

1:44.9

This Thursday, Friday, Saturday, I am in Washington, D.C. I think a few tickets are left.

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