Cara & The Threat Making Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Society & Culture, True Crime, Self-improvement, Relationships, Education

4.7 • 791 Ratings

🗓️ 8 January 2024

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Cara broke up with her abuser after seeing too many red flags. However, during a period of loneliness, Cara's abuser was able to finagle his way back into her life, only to wreak havoc once inside. It's a story of abuse cycles, physical abuse, suicide threats, trauma bonds, intergenerational trauma, isolation, embarrassment, shame, rages, smearing, destabilization, suicidal ideation, future faking, hopelessness, depression, loyalty, double lives, being kind to yourself, hoovering, loneliness, forgiving yourself, plausible deniability, fawning, caretaking, fear, stalking, and guilt. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, suicide threats, and suicidal ideation. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Kara,
0:08.1	and Kara was in a four-year relationship with a physical abuser.
0:11.4	It's a story of intergenerational trauma, suicide threats, trauma bonds, cycles of abuse,
0:19.3	embarrassment, and being kind to yourself. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:46.1	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Kara.
0:52.3	How are you?
0:54.0	I'm doing good. Thanks for having me. Well, thank you for being here with us today,
1:00.0	Kara. And if you want to be a guest like Kara is today, please do go to our website at
1:05.2	Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form when you click on that button it takes
1:11.8	you to our guest form page there you can read all of our instructions and either send us an
1:16.6	email at narcissist apoclopclips at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit
1:22.0	button in please do send it in the format that we ask for and we have a content warning for this episode as we do discuss physical abuse, suicide
1:33.0	threats, and suicidal ideation in this episode.
1:37.4	So that is your content warning for this episode.
1:40.5	And today you are going to hear Kara's story and it was a four-year relationship that had incremental
1:46.9	abuse over time.
1:48.9	You know, this story is about the confusion of the type of physical abuse that is going on.
1:54.4	Was it physical abuse?
1:55.8	Is it physical abuse?
1:57.4	And the embarrassment of being in this relationship and living essentially a double life
2:03.5	so others don't know what's going on.
2:07.1	And it's also about the cycles of abuse and recognizing the cycles of abuse.
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