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Can You Change Your Personality? Olga Khazan Tried.

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Politics, News, News Commentary

4.6656 Ratings

🗓️ 13 March 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

“I possessed a unique ability to find suffering in even the best circumstances,” admits Atlantic writer Olga Khazan. That trait is one reason why she wished for a different personality; she wasn’t seeking radical change, just one to make her life a little bit better. And over the course of a year she did just that, embarking on a journey through the science of personality. Khazan interviewed researchers, took improv classes, learned to sail and surf, reluctantly meditated, and journaled with the intensity of a preteen in unrequited love. She chronicles her quest towards an improved self in her new book, “Me, But Better.” We talk to Khazan, and hear from you: Have you tried to change your personality? How did it go? Guests: Olga Khazan, author, "Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change" and "Weird: The Power of Being an Outsider in an Insider World."; staff writer, The Atlantic Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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From KQED in San Francisco, I'm Grace Swan, in for Alexis Madrigal.

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Atlantic writer Olga Hazan had a good life, but like any self-admitted neurotic, she wondered if her life could be a little bit better.

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She wasn't seeking radical change, but she wanted to be more outgoing, less anxious, the

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person who embraced new things.

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So for a year, she embarked on a journey through the science of personality. In her new book, Me But Better, Hazan chronicles her quest towards an improved self.

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We talked to Hazan and hear from you.

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Have you tried to change your personality? How did it go?

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All that right after this news. News. Welcome to Forum. I'm Grace Juan, in for Alexis Madrigal. In a past career, I had an employer who had the entire company taking Myers-Briggs test. Apparently, I was an E-N-T-J. Or possibly, along with the firm's entire accounting department, I was an I-F-SP. I mean, I was in my 20s, this was the 90s, and who really knows. What I do remember was that we were told you are who you are. But you like me might be surprised to learn that personality isn't fixed. You can change who you are. And that's what Atlantic writer Olga Hazan attempted to do, leaning on science, experts, and a lot of improv classes,

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Hazan embarked on a year-long journey to tweak aspects of herself. She wasn't seeking

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radical change, but she wanted to be the kind of person open to new things, happy to host a

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party, able to do meditation body scans without falling into a deep, snow-white kind of sleep.

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