pick your battles i think you said it best like is that the hill you want to die on? Yeah. And there's so many times in my NICU career where I'm like, that wasn't the hill I wanted to die on. But I did. I bled all over that hill for what? Yeah. Choose your battles. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome back to the selfie show, you guys. We are your

host, Tori Meskin and Sam Manacero. We are bringing you the weekly dose of sweet and salty.

And we are, as always, talking off the clock, but today we are talking about me.

Oh, hey. Oh, who saw. Yeah yeah yeah this is going to be a good one you guys I'm going to keep it real with you guys but this is this is backstory Sam yeah there's a lot of

things here dark diving into a lot of learning a lot of things here. Dark. Diving into. A lot of learning. A lot of life lessons. You live and you learn. A lot of growth. Mindfulness. Self awareness. A lot of great thing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We're going to be going into that today. I'm really excited.

Before we dive into that, though, I want to hear a little bit about, you know, your situation with social media and some dating, like what's going on over there, you know? So, yeah, we were talking about what should single girl, Mary Girl, Life Tip be this week? And she was like social media. And I was like, oh, man. All right right let me just say my DMs are a hot cesspool of just filth like it's awful in there it's like well to be fair you're

pretty sassy out there on your on your gram your gram is pretty sass ofras but i don't care because

honestly i like my boobs and i like my butt and I'm going to post pictures of them. But it doesn't mean you can't respect me. I can post booty pictures and still be respected. Yeah, yeah, that's fair. That's fair. Come on. Very, yeah. Yes. 100%. When you're when you're going through your DMs, like what's going on back there? You know what I mean?

All right. So I got one on Thursday that I'm like, this is a trap. I am not even going to fall into this trap.

He is not well.

Hi, smiley face. Can I ask if you ever helped a man in a wheelchair?

At least it's on brand with medical, you know.

And that, but it makes me so nervous because one time I asked, got a DM from guys asking

if I like to put in catheters.

Oh my God.

And I was like, no.

I do not like where this is headed.

Abort mission.

Stop it right there. These are the DMs I don't reply to

because I'm like, I don't want to respond and know what the follow-up to that is. Yeah, gross.

I don't know where that's headed and I don't like it. I also get some nice poetry. Would you like me to

read you? Yeah, yeah. Let's go there. This nice gentleman sends me poems frequently.

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