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Minimalist Moms Podcast | Simple Living for Overwhelmed Moms

Building Secure Relationships: Healing Attachment Trauma & Finding Safe Love | Jessica Baum (Bonus Episode)

Minimalist Moms Podcast | Simple Living for Overwhelmed Moms

Diane Boden

Self-improvement, Home & Garden, Leisure, How To, Kids & Family, Mental Health, Education, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.8952 Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Diane talks with Jessica Baum, licensed mental health counselor, relationship expert, and author of the upcoming book SAFE: Coming Home to Yourself and Others – An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships. Jessica shares how early attachment patterns shape the way we love, trust, and connect, offering insights into healing attachment wounds, recognizing the difference between intensity and intimacy, and learning what it truly means to feel safe in relationships. With practical guidance for overcoming relationship anxiety and building secure, healthy love, this conversation is a roadmap for anyone ready to break old patterns and create deeper emotional connection.

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About Jessica |

Jessica Baum is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life—why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. This passion led her to specialize in trauma, attachment theory, and interpersonal neurobiology. Jessica believes that connection—to ourselves and others—is at the heart of healing, and she uses a range of modalities to help individuals and couples return to wholeness. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a private group practice, and she leads a global coaching company offering support to clients worldwide. Jessica is a certified addiction specialist and Imago couples therapist with advanced training in EMDR, experiential therapy, CBT, and DBT. Her bestselling book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, established her as a trusted voice in the healing of attachment wounds and building secure, fulfilling relationships.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

For those of you that are new around here, I release bonus episodes that serve a niche part of my audience.

0:05.4

So if this content doesn't fit what you're looking for, check out one of the other several episodes that has dropped this month, or join me back here next Tuesday for a conversation you don't want to miss.

0:16.2

It's profound and transformational, and it takes a lot of courage to start to meet these parts and start

0:24.5

to heal what was wounded in relationship must heal in relationship. And the younger, the attachment

0:32.9

wound, the more adult anchoring your nervous system needs.

0:44.0

You can't make someone else walk through the fire with you unless they're deeply committed to walking through the fire with you.

0:45.7

Sensation in the body is the best indicator that there's attachment work to work on.

0:51.4

We keep repeating the same pattern but with a different person and our core

0:55.7

wounds can get played out again in different ways with another person. And there's nothing wrong

1:00.8

with sacrificing for our relationship. But if you're doing all the sacrificing and that person

1:06.7

isn't working on it too, then we end up as like the sacrificial lamb.

1:11.7

It's a gift when you have someone who's willing to evolve with you or has the capacity to

1:17.3

evolve. I don't even know that it's always a choice, you know.

1:19.8

The power of understanding that we need each other and learning to depend on dependable people

1:25.0

has changed my life tremendously.

1:28.5

This is Diane Bowden and you're listening to the minimalist moms podcast.

1:32.3

Today's guest says most of us are walking around trying to feel safe in relationships

1:36.4

that we're never built on safety to begin with.

1:39.4

And we don't even know it.

1:40.8

She sat across from countless couples on the edge of heartbreak, people stuck in the same

1:45.1

arguments, the same fears, the same cycles, all wondering why love feels so hard. And after years of

1:50.5

helping people untangle the invisible patterns that drive their relationships, she's realized

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