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Wretched Radio with Todd Friel

BUILD OR BREAK: 7 HABITS THAT CAN RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE IF LEFT UNCHECKED

Wretched Radio with Todd Friel

Fortis Institute

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 3.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 December 2024

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Segment 1: • Break the Cycle: Not praying together, fighting dirty, and shutting down communication will tear a marriage apart. • Prioritize Connection: Make your spouse your chief confider, not your friends or family. • What to Avoid: Bringing up the past, prioritizing being “right,” and putting conditions on love/respect can wreck intimacy. Segment 2: • Quick Forgiveness: No one sins against you more than your spouse, but as a Christian, you’ve been forgiven a mountain—extend that grace. • Watch Your Words: Speak positively about your spouse to others—disparaging them diminishes both of you. • Reality Check: Your family knows you’re a sinner—humility and forgiveness are the lifeblood of a healthy marriage. Segment 3: • Debunking the Myth: Tim Challies challenges the idea that you must be "well-established" before marriage. • Flexibility Matters: Financial strain is real, but godly goals and Christian character are far more important. • Be Faithful: Don’t trade your family for career success—work is important, but it’s just a vehicle for serving God and others. Segment 4: • Trust Jesus First: The Bible commands trust in only one person—Jesus. Trust in marriage is important but not absolute. • When Trust Is Unwise: In cases of abuse or verifiable sin, trust must be approached with wisdom and discernment. • Church Response: How your church handles broken trust and abuse matters—Christians must model God’s grace and truth. ___ Thanks for listening! Wretched Radio would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Wretched Radio we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn’t be more thankful for you if we tried!

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0:00.0

Ritchard Radio begins in three, two, one.

0:07.0

Have a celebration, bake your cookies and cook your stuff.

0:14.0

But here's the thing.

0:15.0

I'm doing this in honor of the great thing that happened 2,000 years ago.

0:20.0

We're celebrating the everlasting life that was accomplished by the incarnation, right?

0:24.3

Wouldn't have happened.

0:24.9

Life, death, burial, resurrection of Christ would not have happened without the incarnation.

0:28.6

So we celebrate that by doing it before the Lord and to the Lord, and that means we're thankful

0:33.3

through the process.

0:34.0

Let that be the punctuated reality of your Christmas celebration.

0:37.5

It's time for Wretched Radio with Todd Friel.

0:41.3

If you want to destroy your marriage, you come to the right place.

0:46.6

Although you probably don't need my help, this is Wretched Radio.

0:51.0

Go ahead and take it away, Jimmy. How can everybody destroy their marriage?

0:54.4

Just go ahead and give life lessons. Okay. Speaking of life lessons, sorry, too much caffeine,

1:00.1

read a Ray Comfort book, started to read a Ray Comfort book. It was given to me as a Christmas

1:03.8

president at church on Sunday. It is what I learned after 50 years of open air preaching.

1:09.3

Wow, Ray's been at it for 50 years. He just celebrated his

1:13.8

75th birthday. Still goes out, does open-air preaching, still goes out with his dog and witnesses

1:19.4

to people one-on-one. That is faithfulness. He has learned much. And if you've been married

1:26.0

for more than a minute, you've learned some stuff,

1:28.8

particularly the things that you can do to undermine the strength of your marriage.

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