Lema time.

This is now my new segment

by Timmy Ontario Enterprises.

Not Enterprises, surprises.

I'm claiming this segment.

Anyway.

I'm so done.

Am I the asshole for not letting my sister-in-law use my wedding dress for her wedding,

even though she can't afford one?

Just listen to the rest of the story.

My younger brother and his fiancé are supposed to get married in the spring after being engaged

for about a year. My younger brother has always been the golden child between the both

of us to my mum, not my dad. Him and his fiance currently live with her, rent free, might I add.

My dad and I, on the other hand, have mixed feelings about this wedding.

Oh, sorry, I forgot to mention the age.

So the younger brother is 24 and his fiancée is 23.

Okay.

Yeah, so my dad and I, on the other hand, have mixed feelings about this wedding. We both feel like my brother is rushing into things and not being financially smart. He just finished his bachelor's degree a year ago and is trying to get on his feet and find a good full-time job in his field. And then he decides to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding. We sat him down and explained this to him and he asked and asked him what the rush was.

Why not push it off for a few years and save up so you can get,

so you guys can really have the wedding of your dreams.

He explained to us that his fiancee wants the wedding as soon as possible and doesn't want to wait.

Well, his fiance's family is pitching in a couple thousand for the wedding,

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