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Brooklyn Beckham, Narcissism & YOU: What Your Family Drama Reveals About Your Deepest Attachments with Thais Gibson | Lisa Bilyeu Live

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8701 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2026

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

You know those moments when you KNOW you’re self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you’re “too much” or “not enough”… but you can’t figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone.


Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE.

I’m coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time.


No therapy jargon here. We talk:

  • Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy)

  • What to do when YOU’RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie)

  • The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere)

  • The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it’s not the same and we break it DOWN)

  • Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step)

  • How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know)

If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love.


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0:00.0

What up everybody to the girl gang out there.

0:04.4

Ooh, I like the sound effect.

0:06.6

How is everyone doing today? I've got a very special guest and a very special day for you guys. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. We're not going to show it yet. But you know who's on here. Oh, you know who's on here. So we're going to leave it for a minute. And I want you to anticipate, actually throw in. If you actually know who's on here. All right, I'm looking at the comments,

0:25.7

I'm waiting for you guys, and I'm gonna say hi to people as we go, so we've got Australia in the house, we've got Star Sunfire, what up Star Sunfire, we've got Radi Kalakuren, we got Vandal Verperdi 3720. What's up guys, thank you so, so much for joining and every single person out there

0:46.6

as part of this go-gong welcome to the women of impact.

0:49.8

You. The per-de-3720! What's up guys, thank you so, so much for joining and every single person out there as part of this Girl Gound welcome to the Women of Impact YouTube live. Today, that's right, I got none other than the freaking epic TIE's Gibson is in the house. Let's have round of applause! Can I get the sound effect? Yay! How would I go? I'm so good to be here with you and so happy to see you honestly.

1:07.0

I am so excited to have you here. You are the expert in attachment styles and so we're going to talk all today guys about attachment styles. Get ready because she's going to break them down. She's going to give you guys a quiz in real time so that you can decide what you are before though we get there. I want to do a bit of a, let you know what to expect today, because today is going to be

1:26.8

freaking epic.

1:27.8

I don't know if you've heard the rumors and the contra- what you are before though we get there. I wanna do a bit of a, let you know what to expect today,

1:25.7

cause today is gonna be freaking epic. I don't know if you've heard the rumors and the controversy, so we're gonna be touching on the Beckham's, yes. This has become a very hot topic where, if you don't know Brooklyn Beckham, Victoria and David Beckham's son has actually now announced he posted on Freakin' Blast about his parent and he is now officially estranged from them.

1:46.5

We're going to talk about that.

1:47.8

We're going to talk about healthy attachment

1:49.4

versus unhealthy attachment and breaking down what Brooklyn Beckham maybe. So stay tuned for that guys. We're also going to do a giveaway. That's right. We love giveaways here. We're going to be in Pat's. We're going to do a giveaway based on your questions that you drop in the comments right now. So I'm going to tease it a little, but tomorrow I am interviewing Dr. Romany, none other than Dr. Romany. And if you've joined my other lives, you know that I now ask officially a community question to the guest. So I want you to drop in right now a question that you want me to ask Dr. Romany. We're going to do a pole and you're going to have to stay to the end and at the end we're going to announce the poll winner and then all three of the people in the poll get the gift and then the winner of the poll gets me to answer to ask the question to Dr. Romani that we baked into the episode forever. So I get to say your name. It's amazing. I'm so excited. All right, without further ado, Tai Ees Gibson and the House. Go. I'm so excited for you to be here. Me too. I'm so excited to be here with you. You've been on my show before, guys, if you haven't checked out that interview, you've got to go and check it out. But I'm so excited for real time people, for you to really help people establish where they are in their relationship, feel bad, not have the detriment of the self-esteem of where they are, but at least give them the

3:07.3

knowledge of where they are and then relationship, not feel bad, not have the detriment to the self-esteem of where they are, but at least give them the knowledge of where they are. And then we can answer questions on anyone out there that has for you on relationships, attachment styles and all the issues. And then we're gonna talk about David and Victoria and the controversy around Brooklyn Beckham. Sounds amazing. All right, ready? So I wanna start with, let us know the four attachment styles and take us through one by one and ask a couple of questions to the community watching right now and I want you guys at home to start writing down what attachment style after she explains them, you are. Throw them in the comments and we're gonna go, ha ha. So if you don't mind writing down. Definitely. So there are four attachment styles. Every person has one.

3:45.1

And the first one is the secure attachment style.

3:47.2

Okay, so, securely attached people, they grow up with and we'll go into all the questions just soon after the intro here. The securely attached person, they grow up with a lot of healthy modeling. So they have and childhood a lot of what we call a pro-joriented behavior where parents are very warm, they're very loving, they're very kind, and they're attuned most importantly.

4:05.3

So they end up if the child's upset or crying, they pick up on it and they're like,

4:09.2

oh my gosh something's... where parents are very warm, they're very loving, they're very kind, and they're attuned most importantly.

4:05.2

So they end up if the child's upset or crying,

4:07.4

they pick up on it, and they're like, oh my gosh, something's wrong, and they actually approach the child to try to suit them and regulate with them, and the child learns, oh, I can rely on people, I'm safe, it's healthy and safe to speak up, and to communicate, and I can trust people will be there for me. Then you have three insecurity attached individuals and at

4:25.5

a very high level we'll get into the deep questions to see which one you are. and I can trust that people will be there for me. Then you have three insecurity attached individuals

4:25.2

and at a very high level,

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