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Shaped by Dog with Susan Garrett

Bridging the Gap Between Blame and Kindness in Dog Training #20

Shaped by Dog with Susan Garrett

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Education, Puppy, Recallers, Animalbehaviour, Dogs, Kids & Family, Pets, Dogtraining, Dogsthat, Petmanners, Susangarrett, Pets & Animals

4.8679 Ratings

🗓️ 14 August 2020

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

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If you are here, chances are you have an interest in how to train a dog without punishment or blame. When you are moving away from training with physical corrections, intimidation, or verbal corrections, you can fall into what I call “the gap”. If your dog is digging in the garden, has paws on the counter, has jumped in the pond or is chasing a cat, you freeze. The old lessons come to your head telling you to “stop the dog and punish”. You want to leave that behind and fall into “the gap” because you don’t know what to do.

 

In the episode you'll hear:

 

• How our dogs are doing the best they can with the education we have given them in the environment that we are asking them to work in.
• About Do-Land where no babies cry, all the birds sing, and there are unicorns and rainbows.
• When I became aware of “the gap” through my friend Lynda Orton-Hill and her Golden Retriever, Spirit.
• How to move on from blame and judgement.
• Why “positive is not permissive” and how training with positive reinforcement does not mean we have no guidelines.
• The 2 things you can do when you are in “the gap”.
• How I learned to “bang head here” from my mentors Bob and Marian Bailey.
• Why my training structure for dogs to be amazing family pets creates excellence in my dogs for world level agility competition.
• How Do-Land is possible for everyone!

 

Resources:

 

• Blog: Where the Heck is Do-Land, Anyway? - https://susangarrettdogagility.com/2019/05/do-land/
• Vlog: Loose Potatoes (Sometimes Dog Training Needs a Plan B) -https://susangarrettdogagility.com/2019/05/loose-potatoes/
• Podcast Episode 6: The Art of Manipulation - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/6/
• Podcast Episode 11: The Power of Permission in Dog Training - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/11/
• Podcast Episode 2: Reinforcement - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/2/
• Podcast Episode 19: One of My Biggest Pet Peeves in Dog Training - https://dogsthat.com/podcast/19/
• Vlog: Talking About Ruff Love (Tater and Chipmunks) - https://susangarrettdogagility.com/2020/05/ruff-love-tater/
• Vlog: Learning from Cats and Seagulls … Chat with Bob Bailey - https://susangarrettdogagility.com/2019/05/chat-with-bob-bailey/

Transcript

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0:00.0

Everybody, welcome to shape by dog.

0:11.9

I am Susan Garrett.

0:13.1

And if you are listening to this podcast or if you're on YouTube watching this podcast,

0:18.0

chances are you at least have a curiosity, an interest in how to train your

0:24.7

dog effectively without the use of physical punishment and blame. You're at least curious.

0:32.2

And for many of you, it's a goal that you strive to reach every single day. How can I effectively communicate with

0:40.4

my dog? How can I achieve lofty goals with my dog? Or how can I have the best family pet ever

0:48.1

without using physical corrections or intimidation or verbal corrections. How do I get that?

0:57.6

If that's you, then chances are you've already met up with what we call the gap.

1:05.4

And the gap is, let's say over here is the destination where we're heading. This is what we like to

1:13.7

refer to as do land. And this is where we recognize that dogs are doing the best they can

1:22.2

with the education we've given them in the environment that we're asking them to work in.

1:29.5

That's our guiding thought,

1:39.1

that we want to train our dog using reinforcement, using games, using their own drives, and figuring out what they love best. In Dooland, babies never cry and birds always sing and there's rainbows and

1:46.5

unicorns and it's not a fictitional place, really. But sometimes it seems like that. Because if you've

1:52.8

come from a world where, like I, I was trained and what today would refer to as balance training,

1:59.2

where I was taught to get the dog to do what you

2:01.6

want. I mean, this was back in the late 80s. You teach the dog with cookies on the nose to

2:06.9

lure them to get behaviors you want and then you reach this magical moment where you've

2:12.5

arbitrarily decided he knows better. And therefore, when he doesn't do what you've asked him to do,

2:20.3

you need to follow it up with a physical correction. This is the land of blame and judgment.

2:27.3

This is the land where dogs hear things like, ah, ah, or no, or hey! This is the land where there's tools that we use to punish behavior because the

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