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The Anxious Achiever

Breaking the Stigma of Mental Health for Men in Business

The Anxious Achiever

Morra Aarons-Mele

Careers, Management, Mental Health, Business, Health & Fitness

4.7600 Ratings

🗓️ 23 February 2023

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

You know that cliche phrase "leaving to spend more time with my family" that so many people us when they leave a job? For Lenny Mendoca, the phrase didn't have much life. After serving as senior partner at McKinsey, Mendoca went on to work as an advisor to California Governor Gavin Newsom. He announced his retirement from Newson's office with the standard phrase. But within a few weeks, after starting to process his clinical depression, he shared it with the public. It's not an easy thing for any successful people, but in some ways even harder for men, to talk about mental health in their careers because of stereotypes and stigma. In this episode, Morra speaks Mendoca, and also listener Darshan Patel, a regional lead at a global company who himself struggles with severe depression and bipolar disorder, and is looking to break the stigma around mental health in India in particular.

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0:00.0

LinkedIn Presents

0:02.0

I'm Maura Erin Smealy and this is the Anxious Achiever, the show that looks at the intersection of mental health and work and how we can all do both better.

0:30.9

The fact that it's still so hard to talk about mental health in the context of work isn't so much a secret.

0:32.5

It's fighting against a work culture decades, if not longer, in the making.

0:37.3

That culture includes a lot of

0:38.7

stereotypes about what makes a strong leader, someone direct, forceful, unemotional, traits that are

0:44.6

also stereotypically associated with men. Later in the show, we'll hear from listener Darshan Patel,

0:51.4

a regional leader of a multinational company. He's currently based in Mexico

0:55.7

working for an India-based company and reached out to me to share his story of depression and

1:00.1

bipolar and professional success. First, though, I'm joined by Lenny Mandansa, who spent the

1:06.5

majority of his professional career at McKinsey, eventually becoming a senior partner and consultant.

1:12.5

Lenny retired from the company in 2014. Then he served as chief economic and business advisor

1:19.1

to California Governor Gavin Newsom. And it was Lenny's resignation from that role that caught

1:25.3

my attention because he resigned using one of those

1:29.6

cliche phrases about leaving to spend more time with his family and then went quickly public

1:36.1

about his struggle with anxiety and depression. Here's my conversation with Lenny.

1:47.8

Okay. with Lenny. A question I ask a lot of my guests is to think back to the roots of what drove them to achieve, right?

1:55.0

I mean, what was your path to sort of getting to the place where you would get an offer from a firm like McKinsey?

2:02.4

I was one of those kids, so school was relatively easy for me. I did spend a lot of time

2:09.1

doing things outside of the classroom, so I was an athlete in high school. What sport did you play?

2:16.2

Baseball. It was a left-handed junkball pitcher,

2:19.7

which works well in high school, but not very well after that. And then I was a writer,

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