Borderline, Narcissism, Avoidant, and Dependent Personality Disorders (2020 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 17 July 2022
⏱️ 70 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob it's been a while since you've been on the podcast like a month maybe more and the listeners |
| 0:04.7 | love you so much. Oh wow. They're always requesting you. They send in questions just for you. |
| 0:10.5 | So really? Yeah, so let's let's read those questions. Okay. Let's answer them. Sure. |
| 0:15.4 | And see what comes out of our faces. Good. This is the psychology and Seattle podcast. I'm your host |
| 0:21.1 | Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a therapist, a professor, and I'm an email reader. You are indeed. |
| 0:28.8 | Who are you? I am your friend for the last 26 years, something like that. And 24 years, |
| 0:35.6 | I always wonder how long it's been. I think I go through this every time I introduce myself. |
| 0:38.8 | I say the same stuff like, oh, we've been friends for 95. So it's summer of 95. So it would be |
| 0:46.6 | almost 25 years. Yeah. Yeah. And a therapist here in practice in Seattle. Yeah. |
| 0:53.1 | patron Mary writes and it says, I have a question for you and Bob. I have been diagnosed with |
| 0:57.9 | borderline personality disorder and my boyfriend claims to be a narcissist with anger issues. |
| 1:06.0 | We both came from abusive childhoods. He has some red flags. He can be controlling, |
| 1:12.4 | but I can be manipulative at times too. His ex-girlfriend claimed he was abusive. He told me one time |
| 1:20.0 | that he was abusive with her. He was angry at a party and in an argument with her. He grabbed |
| 1:25.5 | her and she got hurt. He feels bad about the incident. I don't want to fall into an abusive |
| 1:31.3 | relationship like my mom did with my dad. I'm worried me and my boyfriend fit into each other's |
| 1:37.3 | dysfunctional attachment styles. I'm in therapy, but he isn't. We both like to talk and share our |
| 1:43.7 | past with each other. So that's good. I've listened to your podcast about intimate partner violence, |
| 1:49.6 | but I just feel so scared and confused because I love him. But I don't want to be another |
| 1:56.4 | statistic. Bob, what do you think? So this idea of borderline and narcissism and the worry about |
| 2:03.4 | that. What do you think? Well, I don't really. I think we are not our diagnoses. So I kind of want to |
| 2:11.0 | just focus on what actually happens between us as opposed to what's your diagnosis and what's mine. |
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