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Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

BONUS EPISODE: From Dating to Marriage to Kids: The Truth About Love, Timing & Choosing the Right Partner with Lindsey Metselaar

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2026

⏱️ 49 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

In this episode, I’m sitting down in New York with the incredible Lindsey Metselaar, host of We Met at Acme, for a real, unfiltered conversation about dating, relationships, and what actually happens when you move from finding your person… to building a life with them. We talk about everything, from the mindset that helped Lindsey meet her husband, to the truth about modern dating (especially for high-achieving women), and what no one prepares you for when it comes to marriage and motherhood. This is one of those conversations that will challenge you, ground you, and remind you of what truly matters when it comes to creating a healthy, secure relationship.

Inside this episode:

  1. Why your dating mindset and self-worth are everything when it comes to attracting a healthy, aligned partner
  2. The truth about choosing the right partner, not just for love, but for long-term compatibility and future family life
  3. What really happens in relationships after kids, including the importance of communication, repair, and realistic expectations

This episode is your reminder that the relationship you desire isn’t built on luck, it’s built on self-awareness, intentionality, and choosing someone who can truly meet you where you are.

And if you’re in a season of dating or feeling frustrated with your relationship patterns, I want you to hear this: the right relationship will add to your life, it will not complete it. You are already whole.

Connect with Lindsey:

Follow Lindsay for more honest dating and relationship advice:

  1. Instagram: @lindzmetz
  2. https://www.instagram.com/lindzmetz/
  3. Instagram: @wemetatacme
  4. https://www.instagram.com/wemetatacme/
  5. Podcast: We Met at Acme
  6. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-met-at-acme/id1300757042
  7. Website:
  8. https://www.wemetatacme.com/about

✨ Ready to do the deeper work and finally create the secure, aligned relationship you deserve?

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🔗 Additional Episode Links:

  1. Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
  2. Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching
  3. Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, psychologist, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, author of Love Magnet and Athletic Wear Connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. Each week,

0:22.1

two episodes will air featuring expert advice, live coaching, and tips showing you exactly how

0:28.5

to improve your life and attract a healthy relationship. You deserve to feel empowered,

0:33.9

secure, and love. Buckle up and let's get vulnerable.

0:41.1

Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast.

0:43.7

I'm your host, Dr. Morgan.

0:45.4

I am so excited about today's episode.

0:49.1

We are here in the studio in New York.

0:51.3

And we have the one and only Lindsay Metzler. Welcome to the show. I thank you so much

0:56.6

for having me. So happy to be here. Yes. And you are the host of We Met at Acme. Yes. And you, I think of you as the

1:05.5

OG dating influencer, if you will, of New York.

1:11.2

I'll take it.

1:12.0

I love it.

1:13.1

How long have you been doing your show?

1:15.2

Nine years.

1:16.1

Nine years.

1:16.7

Which is insanity.

1:18.3

Because I feel like I'm like, I feel like I'm double that in age, but that's, you know,

1:24.3

you know, you just think that like you're still 20 all the time.

1:28.2

Yes. Yes. Oh. And a lot has changed since I saw you. You have become a mom.

1:35.3

Crazy. Yes. I just had my second. And now I have two kids, which is crazy to say out loud.

1:42.5

That's amazing. And you have a boy and then a

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