I was like nine and I was like writing my own obituary in my head being like,

if I died, my crush would be like, I always loved her.

We were a dark kids, we're dark kids. Psycho. Psycho children.

I'm Nora Mcnerney and this is Terrible Thanks for asking. This is a podcast where we talk about

her things where we stretch our empathy muscles, we strengthen them, we are working out.

It's a podcast where we talk about the gray areas in a world where it's just very easy to believe

that things are either one thing or the other. And that is what Gabby Dunn does too.

Gabby's a writer, she's a comedian, she's a podcaster, a youtuber, a New York Times best-selling

author, she's an actor. I've been watching her YouTube channel and listening to her two podcasts,

bad with money, and just between us for years. She has truly the greatest podcast theme song,

of all time.

Right, it's gonna be in your head forever. Gabby's great. So that's Gabby or at least the things

that she's done. Have you considered what I haven't done? Because I do every day in my head.

Have you considered the things that were almost gonna happen and then didn't and that I cannot stop

thinking about on a loop till I die? It's tough because if you had caught me on another day,

maybe I would have been riding high, being like, I'm the best. And it sucks because it kind of feels

like it's never in the middle. It's always like, I'm the best and no one can tell me anything.

Or I'm the worst. I'm garbage and everyone hates me. And it's tough like being a public figure in

some ways because if you're just a regular person and someone doesn't like you, you're like,

oh my god, my coworker doesn't like me.

That's the kind of day I caught Gabby on. A day when her brain was telling her,

you are trash. Absolute trash. Ignore the facts of your life. Just completely disregard the

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