If your BiFi is pinging, that's because we've got writer and author Jen Winston on the pod to byke out about Bi Culture! Is bi culture actually a thing, or our we latching onto a collection of normal behaviors like cuffing pants, getting a bob, and getting comfortable in big chairs? What would a bisexual bar look like? Should cis men be at Cubbyhole? How do you know if you're feeling internalized biphobia or straightphobia? And why aren't pride flags sexier? We discuss all these questions as well as other themes from Jen's new book, Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much. Plus, Carolyn steals Melody's identity by getting really into dancing and astrology, while Melody tries to see if there is truth to a royal fable. Finally, we end with a question about cishets, gender, and spoons. -Starter Jacket, the short story we reference in the listener question by Ever Mainard. -Tickets to our Nov. 29 Dyking Out at Stonewall show are on sale now. -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other listeners by joining our Patreon community. If you can't support the pod on a monthly basis, please consider tipping us through Paypal or purchasing 1-on-1s and cameos through Jemi. We truly appreciate it! -We've got MERCH. -For related content, follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram -Help more dykes find us and Leave Us a 5-star Review if you like what you hear! -Have a question that you need answered ASAP? Check us out on WISIO. -Theme song by There Is No Mountain Sponsors: BetterHelp: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Best Fiends: Join us and the millions of Americans who are already playing this game. Download Best Fiends for FREE on The Apple APP store or Google Play. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices