Hello and welcome to the bachelor podcast. I'm Kay York City and I am Jared

Freed so good to be here with you Kay another week another Zach search for a

friend. I mean the best friend talk just as an overall thing. I get that

they're saying it because they don't know what else to say or Zach doesn't know

what else to say. Yeah Zach is very good at sounding like someone who has

heard women talk about what they want in a relationship like it like I just

don't what do you think when you hear the best or do you get us put off it to

it as as I do like I don't even get it. Yeah I personally the word best friend

has lost all meaning right. It has lost all meaning to me like I don't know

whether I'm looking for a best friend if I have best friends like was the guy

I was in love with last my best friend I don't know because I'm I feel like

very much a high schooler and I don't know me personally I grew up and every

year I had a new girl best friend because we had a falling out or whatever

and so I don't know what this best friend means because to me I'm like like

come and go. Well that what you're looking for. I mean not to gender this but

like I've noticed that every woman I've ever met could tell you the you know

the the people who have reached best friend status to them they have a very

specific group and as you said it's yearly it seems to go back and forth

sometimes people elevate to best friend status some people go below best I

have never had the confidence to refer to someone out loud as my best friend

you know like I because what if they don't feel the same way right and I just I've

never even said that like I honestly like I it is not a guy thing and I you

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